Often when I'm sarging I get busted by the target or her friend(s) for being a player "you're just a player aren't you?".
It's a major shit test... and I usually just respond with something like "that really hurt my feelings" or "but you can't help liking me"... but that just prove them right. Can anyone give me some advice on how to act/respond good to this? Or even better: to not end up in this situation at all.

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The answers to this question have been covered in about 10 other posts...

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How are you opening? What routine are you doing?

I recently used a routine on a HB9. She was on her own and i asked her "Hey, i can't help but wonder if you're an interesting person i should get to know?" and she said yes as she smiled. Then i asked her "Why?" and she basically asnwered and opened up for me. Everything she said that was good about her i'd add a little neg here or there to help increase my DHV. Then her mate returned from the loo but luckily i had already hooked as she asked me my name. A mate of mine then acted as my wingman and then started to initiate conversation with the obstacle to help me work my magic on the target.

**If she had of said "no" to your origianal question (which is rare for a HB8+ to do with this type of question) just comment "So, you don't think you're interesting enough for me?". This increases your DHV and will 95% of the time get her to say "well, yes i am" cuz she doesn't want to seem lower.

Now she obviously knew i wanted her but it kind of made her feel like she had to impress me because of the way it was set up.

No particular openers at all. I usually just go with what ever comes into my head at the moment. Usually the question will drop on me when I've failed to greenlight the rest of the set... and I think I've been just playing without method or strategy too much lately.
Although, thanks for the tip on other posts covering the topic. I found some of them and got a couple of good answers. Next time I'll try:
"Wow, impressive observation. You must have some superpowers or something."
or
"Sssh, not too loud. Or else everyone else will want to join in."

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that sounded like a great opener,if it goes the way u say it will,but i would presume that if u dont have at least a little bit of interest from her, she would say no just to make u go away, and dont care if u do. but im a total newbie,just started reading about PU,never tried anything in the field yet, so what do i know.....

and what would u do if she turned the question around and said that youre not interesting enough for her?

how about apporaching a girl,using almost the same line, but ask if she (point to another girl in the room) is an interesting person i should get to know?? how would a girl most likely react to that? just wondering...

dude, when she asks that, just walk away,

that means that everything u say after that she is probly gunna call BS in her head.

Yes this question has been answered in about ten other posts but I couldn't help but reply to Jp here.
Why walk away? Just snap back at her with one of the countless witty things on this forum. You walk away you are basically admitting defeat. And do you think she will follow you? Ugh don't walk away from a set unless its to your tactical advantage. Or you dont like them.

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Agreed.

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