Hey, i'm a tad stuck with what to do in this situation i'm in..........basically i met this really hot girl about 3 months ago, we're still in regular contact with each other, either via txting or speaking on the phone. I have been on a few dates with her and everything so far is going according to plan!! ( touch wood), my head!

Now i have recently got tickets to go see a top gig, i've invited her and she said that she'd love to go. She also said, 'just let me know how much i owe you'.........now i've not said anything yet. I think the best thing to do is obviously not charge her anything because at the end of the day, i asked her to come, seems a bit harsh to charge her aswell. What do you guys reckon!!

Thanks

How much were the tickets?

If they weren't hideously expensive, then just tell her 'it's my treat'.

She's asking how much she owes you because it'd be rude of her to assume you're paying and it'd be rude of her to ask if she should pay.

Just tell her it's your treat, nothing major.

Dont say this. Its gentleman like, but not PUA like. What i suggest is tell her. "you owe me a drink or "I'll pay for the tickets you get dinner". dont Just treat her. Surley Enough she will agree. Use it to your advantage cause now it seems like it balance out and then both parties dont feel guilty for one paying for the other.

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Ah, there we go.

NonStop's beat me out. I concede he is the better PUA. ^__^

I agree entirely, use it. She'll be willing to pay for something else. But make sure the value of the ticket isn't less than what she buys you. If they're nosebleeds, don't go asking for Steak and Lobster.

You can pay for the tickets - and shell get drinks. Do the equation in any way you need to as long as the result isnt you pay for everything. IF YOU DO PAY FOR EVERYTHING her ASD will kick in - and your gonna get resistance. She may feel like you are buying her into bed.

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Appreciate the advice guys. The tickets came to roughly £200 for 2. But i to really want to go to the gig so the money wasn't really a major problem even though it is on the steep side! Was originally just gonna say for her to pay the actual face value of about 25/ 30!, but we'll see!!