First I'm gonna start by saying that I definitely didn't "get lucky" here. There is are no good luck factors, no unfair advantages, nothing like that.

I did it with this girl whom I thought had completely friendzoned me. But I had done enough C&F, push/pull, and emotional connection with her to get her attracted to me. Of course, she still gave some heavy fuckin' LMR and shit tests, but I was able to blast through it by maintaining my frame and using more c&f.

When I was taking off her bra and feeling up her massive firm tits, she said "Are you just trying to get laid?" and I responded "No, are YOU just trying to get laid?" At another point, when we were both naked, she said "Where do you think this is going?" and I said "Nowhere. I'm not putting out for you tonight; I'm just a cunt-tease." Then she told me to fetch her another drink and I just said "No, you've already had enough." Then she wanted me to play a song for her, since I'm a musician. I agreed to do it, but made sure not to agree to readily or easily. I also stayed where I was on the bed, and instead made her fetch the guitar for me, then turn on the amp for me and adjust the settings for me. Then I played Freebird and we sung it together and that was pretty fun.

Anyway, I ended up having a totally Extramask experience. She told me that she didn't use BC pills, so I had to bust out a condom. She hates condoms she says. Well, what was even more embarassing was that I needed her to use her hand to slip it in for me. Then I went pounding away, and she was enjoying it way more than I was. The condom felt really shitty and uncomfortable, and so did that position, so I ended up going soft and it slipped out. And the damn condom tightened up so I couldn't get hard again. We both felt really ashamed and she questioned me about that. I just told her it was because of the condom, and that I'm used to not having to use them.

Then she went outside to have a cig, so I told her I was going to just check my email and she was like "What, so you can change your facebook status saying that you just fucked me?" I said "No, but that would make you feel really important wouldn't it?" I went outside to join her a few minutes later and she gave me shit about staying inside and asked me if I had to check my email every 15 minutes (Was this a shit test?). Then she explained to me that she is submissive and would like to be ravaged. That kinda sucks for me, because I'd rather have the woman be on top riding me, instead of having to sit on my knees thrusting into a girl who just sits there.

Anyway, we went back inside, cuddled for a bit, then tried doin' it again but the same shit happened again. She thought that I was used to banging skinny broads and that she was "too much for me" (she has a short and stocky build but with HUGE tits, as in the kind that you would expect to find on a 6' tall Danish woman).

So what's the deal, guys? Am I just using the wrong type of condom, or is there something else I'm doing wrong? I know that she recently got out of a 2 year long live-in relationship, so she's probably not the one who's doing it wrong. So please give me advice, and also feel free to congrats me on finally losing my v-card at age 20 :p

Maybe you should of asked for oral, or demanded whatever floats your boat lol.. as for your 'going soft' problem.. maybe it was just nerves buddy and you did it say you didnt like that position. Its hard to stay hard when your not enjoying it lol, so maybe thats the root of the problem.

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Congrats! dude if you can't stay hard just imagine the opposite of your grandma in her underwear whatever that may be :p

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Heeey! congratz mate:P

I just wondering, is she in your friend zone? (I'm friends to a HB 9,5, but I can't get turned on by her. because she is in MY friend zone:S I it doesn't take much to make me turned on!)

I have that with some girls I know, but I don't think that's the case with this one. I can still get turned on by touching her or listening to her. I think it was just from the uncomfortable position and the condom which is too tight and removes all feeling. So I start to get soft, and then the condom tightens up around it so I can't get hard again.

So could somebody tell me:
-What types of condoms I should be using (I just bought the purple Durex ones because they seemed to be the most basic)

-Some useful or important info on how to actually be good at sex. I noticed that I was moving at a different rhythm than her too, which might have contributed to the shittiness. Haha. I'd like to be able to do this again without feeling really ashamed and looking like a weirdo. I also had to make her use her hand to guide my wang into her, and I actually couldn't tell whether or not it was in yet.

the simplest way to be good at sex is to figure out how to stimulate her clit while you are inside her. I can pretty regularly get girls to orgasm without even being inside them, and at that point they basically will do anything to please me. Study some female anatomy and find a girl who will honestly tell you what feels good and what doesn't. Express how turned on you are not with just your penis, but your whole body.

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friggen condems do the samething to me. Make sure you are standing at absolutly full mass before you put the condum on then penetrate immediatly. and find a position that workds for both of you. as soon as you think you are might loose it increase the pace! Oh and Congrads Bro

A few condom tips,

Trojan Magnums are a lot more comfortable. I find smaller condoms way to restrictive and faulty.

A great method of using the condom to your arousal advantage is to enjoy the process of putting it on. Instead of rushing and thinking you better do it fast before she leaves, relax, she's horny, just slowly put it on like you're the captain of this ship. It will turn her on even more too.

Then, it helps to slowly stimulate yourself before putting it inside of her, making sure your not messing up the condom though.

I'm not sure what position you and her were using, but if it was missionary, sometimes the angle is just off, putting a pillow underneath her lower back usually solves the problem.

Also, start slow, make sure you are feeling good before you start jackhammering. It's a good way to build attraction anyway, connecting before you really go at it, bodies and minds in sync, music helps that too, and once again, take your time, slow deep thrusts drive her crazy.

Hope some of this helps.

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