Ok so i been talkin to this gurl and she flaked wen i askd her to come out and stuff and now shes seeing this other guy....but my question is...is it worth keeping her as a friend for future potential?? And another thing....she really confused me...she flaked on me...and we've been talking for like 4months or sumthing...and then she talks to some guy for 3-4 days...who she also flaked on (she was asking me for an excuse for his date!) and her FB status changes to 'In a relationship'...like wtf...where did i go so wrong...i even had her telling me she liked me and shit...got hugs wen i demanded them....i had her trained up like a puppy...i'd like to know where i went wrong as well...just for future refernce as im still a rPUA in the early learning stages.

I don't really understand what you are asking? Fill the holes in your story, or see if you can word what you are saying in a different way. You mentioned she flaked on you, but you don't even explain how.

If you waited 4 months to ask this chick out, you waited way too long. By four months she's probably friend-zoned you about six times over /exaggeration

Yeah if you've been friend zoned its not uncommon for the girl to stop talking to you after you try to ask her out. I assume we've all read the 'Ladder theory'.

If you want to keep trying with her, you're going to need to separate from her long enough that she hardly remembers you and you're fresh on her mind. This can be anywhere from a couple of months to a year. Take in mind that 'Escaping' the friend zone is hardly worth the effort unless you're head over heels for her.

her status changed to "in a relationship"

so im assuming your talking about online..........well how do you know she is dating him?

it might be a thing to get your goat.......


but if she is dating him well he got there first is all i can say.......when someone likes someone its not like there gonna wait for them to ask them out........sometimes thats the case but rarly....

if your case......yeah some guy got there first

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I didnt wanna go into too much detail with the story as it gets boring...but basically she was a shy gurl...so i thot i'd game it gradually...and it took the 4months of talking to her to get her out of her shell and open up to me....maybe this wasnt such a good idea ....any how for those of u who didnt understand wot i was asking....im basically asking that...shud i totally cut off with this chick....just coz i cudnt get with her....or shud i just keep talking to her as normal (and continue sarging elsewhere)....but hopefully she'll break up with this guy eventually and then i can game her again...but i'd be in the LJBF zone right?? so is it better to cut off and then come bak?? I just think its gonna be pretty obvious to her ....i stop talking to her right as she i seeing another guy....isnt this immature??
And going bak to the story.....this guy went to skool with her like 6th-7th grade....she hardly speaks to him.....then he comes out of no where and asks her out...she flakes the date...and then she goes to see him...they chat over a walk and the shes with him....and this is like 3-4 weeks AFTER she flaked on me!! like WTF...i took the time to get her out of her shell and everything...and IM THE ONE TO GET DROPPED!! FUCKIN WOMEN!!! AAAAAAARGGH!! oh btw...im not so head over heels about her that I would just wait around for this 1 gurl...but i'd like another attempt wen i improve my skills....somehow the gaming techniques didnt really work on her...coz shes a shy boring gurl that isnt regularly dating guys...so this part of her is kind of 'switched off'..if that makes sense. I only gamed her coz it was sumthing i wanted to do for ages...but obviously i still didnt have the skills

come on ppl...help me learn from teh mistake!! if i made one!!

Oh I feel your pain, I really do.
I don't know why they do this either.
Anyone?