Hi guys...

Girls cheat. ALOT. I have been in numerous situations where girls whose boyfirends I have met have approached me for sex. I have been with buddies as they tag team some slut who is getting married in a few months. I have reason to suspect my last GF cheated on me when she went away to colloge. Whatever fuck her. I never looked back. But I am hurt by it. I t bothers me imesnely that some of the women I date do not have the same sense of honor or control I do. I have been in many many situations where I could have easily cheated (all my friends cheat/ have cheated ALL of them) but decided for the higher ground, ended the realtionship and THEN pursued other girls, not during.

Guys, give me hope, LOL, tell me there are women I CAN respect out there that are HB8s,9s, and 10's. I have no problem grabbing numbers, hooking up, but I am so guarded these days with commiting becasue I have deveoped trust issues.

Anyone out theire have any words of encouragment, stories, know of girls who are faithful the whole way through?

Thanks

I am by no way an expert but man you said it yourself. Girls and guys cheat. You took the high road and don't cheat. There are girls out there in the same situation or have the same stance on things as you do.

It'll be tough but open up and let them know where you stand and things will work out for ya.

I should take my own advice here but you're not going to meat that girl i you don't try.

Mac

I think, given the right situation anyone will cheat. No matter how conservative a person is, if she or he is in the right situation they will cheat.
However, I do think that some types of girls/guys cheat less. Example would be timid, reserved, well-brought-up girls. But those girls are usually not attractive to begin with.

its one of those on going battles bro. All i can say is just be who you are and be true to you're morals. I Beleive in Karma and thats what i stick by. I have cheated and been cheated on. i thnk ever one in a relationship or marragie wonders "is he or she cheating on me?" instead of dwelling on that just live your life to the fullest, Aslong as you are happy does it matter?

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I can understand your hurt but its important to move past this and not hold grudges against women as a collective.

Its best to do some introspection and perhaps take a look at how you could better select the women you choose to be in a relationship with.

Remember to qualify your women correctly.

Good time girls and relationship material women arent always one in the same.

If once in a relationship you let disrespect slide then you can only expect not only more of the same but for the level of disrespect to escalate.

You need to put your foot down early and command respect.

Aslong as you are fun to be around because you are happy within yourself and you are a confident leading man who is prosperous in his own life then anything that would cause her to cheat is a fault of her own and a lack of her own values and self esteem - which is cause in itself for you not to dwell as she wasnt/isnt worth your time.

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Really now boss are you serious. I do not agree with that at all. If you truly love a person and don't want to hurt them in the end there are no situations that would make cheat. The who "it was a mistake" or "I was drunk" also BS.

I agree with you on the act that a lot of people cheat out there though, not that everyone will or can though.

Wow some great advice there guys.

BigMackinnon that is what I try to belive, that there are HBs out there who have a strong moral code, and I use myself as an example thinking there HAS to be a female equivilent out there.

berettagtz, I dont like to think that dude. I hope thats not the case, there has to be hbs who are well brought up.

NonStopReaper, ya man, I think 'what goes around, comes around' is pretty much true. I have experianced it myself. Your right about just living your own life to its fullest, I think it is a fault of mine to seek a level of trust with someone else, its not Alpha?

Eros-SIS, great great advice. Can you point me to any threads containing advice about qualifying women correctly?
Thats gold dude, great point.

Im with you BigMacKinnon, thats what I hope as well, just want to belive that, but I still have small doubts at times. I think a lot tho depends on the girl. There is a big diff between a 19 yearold party college chick and a 25 yearold women working full time.

Anyone have info on qualifying a girl...?

thats actually a rough question man, something I'd say you have to meet girls and try to make that assessment on your own. If looking for a certain quality in a lady you know what you're looking for get out there and find it.
Don't think she'll change just for you. ex: If you pick up a girl you think is great and she goes home with you but has a bf, have a good time and cut her loose man. Not the one for you.

I'd like to think the same as you, but I've seen enough and that was just my opinion. Notice how I phrased it: "given the right situation" anyone will cheat. Just think about it a little...

I'd just like to think she was cheating on me with a gf. Then you make her feel bad about it and be welcome to many threesomes.