Been on 3 dates with hot girl. Last night 1st time out in a group. She was a little drunk and then disappeared. I called once & text 'are you ok?' no reply. 11am she text 'I am so sorry about last night. Went for cig & was sick so went home. When we go out again don't let me drink. If you still talk to me that is xx' how long should I let her sweat, should I be ok about it, etc. What you thinking?

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well if she was trying to let u down easy that would be the most terrible way to do it

maybe she puked on herself or some gross shit

u kno people get insecure especially people concerned with appearances (girls) so even if she wasnt gross maybe she *felt* gross and thought she wouldnt be attractive or maybe she literraly was so sick she HAD to go

Unless she has a drinking problem is not that into you.

yeah what am i saying

thats what it is she just doesnt kno what to say


ummm.... just think about the night at what happened

maybe u tried to hard and came off as pua clown

that happens or maybe u were too shy

God knows...

girls are crazy no harm is still f-closing her tho

a.) she's not sweating, she is having the time of her life with or without you.

b.) you gotta ask yourself if your cool with this kind of shit, if you are then make fun of it all!

d.) dont play mad at her thats some afc cock shit. afcs love doing this shit because it's emotional validation.

e.) try to keep a "whatever I had a good time without you" frame.

f.) cmon you texted her and then called?!? next time just do one or the other. i personally fucking hate it when a girl calls and texts. I personally have no interest in talking to them at all if they call, text and leave a myspace comment. its needy.

yeah... chiding girls is fun

chide chide chide

i chide girlsall day long and it makes me feel important!

Ignore point "c"



I should have clarified. It is not really a chiding more like:

"you can make it up to me by QUIT BEING GAY"

or make her make it up to you. something like that.

My girl friends & fuck buddy (who has most to loose if this new relationship develops) all say the same as Eminem's 1st post that she didn't want me to see her being / feeling gross. She is totally concerned about her appearance. I waited a few hours to wonder if I had been put off then text 'hey girl I was a little worried about you' (MM brain hi-jack)

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I know she likes me a lot from how she behaves, what she says and all her friends tell me. She replied 'I'm so sorry. Hope you still want to go see me on Wednesday xx'.
I love your 1st post Eminem, but in the 2nd you say the opposite. Had to laugh at 'I chide girls all day' you joined 2 days ago, post count 160+ already Brilliant. It has nothing to do with our interaction we enjoyed ourselves.

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Thanks Mr Fickle when I speak to her I will definitely frame as 'I had a great time without you' because it's true a hot promotions girl gave me her #. HG: you're drinking alcohol. You shouldn't, it's bad for you.
ME: Hahahaha That is the lame-est chat up line ever HG: (coy smile) A girls got to try. Little chat... HG: I gotta work now you must have my # Then I went to a salsa club latino girls!

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And I will definitely get her to make it up to me.

Excuse the crazy way I have posted, I'm using my phone to post and it has a low max character limit.

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Sounds to me like she...

had too much to drink.

felt sick.

didn't want you to see her sick cos she likes you.

now feels like shit.

So decide what you want. She drank too much and felt embarrassed. You ever done that? Did you want someone you liked to punish you for it, or to let you know it's no big deal?

If you want to fuck her (and I KNOW you haven't), she has to trust you. Right now, she doesn't. That's why she left, and she's right. Stop playing games with her. If you want to be naked with her physically, you have to drop the bullshit with her.

She got boozed. No big deal. But girls, esp. young girls, can get really embarrassed about stuff like that, esp. in a GROUP with a guy they like. It's a pressure situation.

So stop being a dick, and call her, and go out and make sweet, sweet love to her.


Don't BE a dick. Give her dick.

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"War is not the answer. Love is."

I agree with you Sean. I know she likes me and believe she is being real with me. And,
I am being real with her too ("Are you ok?" "I was a little worried about you")
She'd be cool to trust me. I'm not playing games, except the fun ones.
The ones that build excitment and arouse emotions.

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