Hey all,

I'm reading a lot lately about creating and establishing perceived value in a chick. I was curious to hear from some of the more experiences PUAs how they go about this. I understand that it's always easier to draw from past experiences, but do you find it's easier to stretch the truth (ex. changing a true story from you driving a shitbox car to driving a BMW) or flat out lie (creating a totally fake story to make you look good)?

In reality, it seems it would be easier to simply stretch the truth to some of the things I've done, but I don't have many stories that DHV for me. How did you guys get over this obstacle? or am I just making excuses for myself here?

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Do something every day that scares you...

I'm kind of a newbie here, but from what I have learned, there's no need to lie.

You have value. You just have to fit it her values....

For example: She talks about spending time with her family, blah, blah....

You give an example (perhaps not right away) about the best time you had with your nephew, blah, blah.

That's what I picked up from Steve Clink's book anyway. Don't just repeat what she says, but pick up on what her values are and throw something that you have that will make her think you share the same values.

Who cares what kind of car you have? If a broad does, then she's not worth it anyway.

im recently been sargin this hot chick, a good 8.5 samll petite frame, nic erack cute ass, fuckin awesome, she was tellin me how she's goin down to london to be in this urban dance competition.. so after she's talked about it a while i ask her

"if she ever gets nervous before goin to dance? because its quite a common theme."

she looks at me quizically,

Me- Im always nervous until i go on and as soon as im on there its not me anymore its a comletly different person.

stil confused - yea me too

i then went on to tell her how i do fire eating/breathing/poi/jugglin adn unicycle adn the last gig i did i set my t-shirt on fire in front of 300ppl, but i didnt realise i was on fire so now have the scar to proove it.

she was gobsmacked, and impressed i think.


ANYWAY you can demonstrate value, winning a fight, stoppin a fight. being known by alot of people in the situation. making people laugh.
one of the best peices of advice given to me buy a lady, was if people are seen to be having fun with you then others will like to have fun with you too.
keepin people intriguid, enjoying htemselves is the ultimate DHV, i have a large scar on my left fore-arm its around 5 inches long and was really deep, had stitches. when i get asked what that was from, i tell them a big story in which i try to stop a racist robber buy throwing a pack of biscuits at his head and i got stabbed. when they get all excited an go really, i say
"no i crashed into a wall when mountain biking" it gets a laugh and i really lay it on thick with the robbery, its a funny lie, but i always tell th truth afterwards.

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Black tattoos up and down his arm, aint nothin more dangerous than aboy woth charm - christina aguilera

what about having a certain skill.. like being a musician (drummer) or something like that...does that count as DHV? And having ambitions for what you wanna do with your life

being able to tell a story about you drumming would definatley be demonstrating higher value.
if you have funny story one in which involves you drumming, like goin to the wrong venue, or been so drunk you fell off your stool, or been there with your ex girlfreind, (who is a model ;p) an her parents when somebody threw some knickers which landed on your head who was sat behind your girlfriends mum who threw a drink over her adn got chucked out.
something like that is a DHV story, not are you bragging about being talented enough to bash some skins, but a story that showes that but is also fun for them to listen to.
i have a few drummer friends and completley feel out of depth if they talk about parradiddles adn different toms snares etc. so keep it light, if she's interested see if you can teach her some basic beats that would be fun for her, but also a good way to proove you can lead people.

your lucky most girls i meet dont wanna play with fire so they dont wanna learn.

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Black tattoos up and down his arm, aint nothin more dangerous than aboy woth charm - christina aguilera