So i've been seeing this hb9 and out the past 4-5 times we've hung out we've had lots of fun together. Got plenty of IOIs and i kinoed the shit out of her, i feel i've gamed her very nicely but so far i've only gotten as far as a c-close. I've been trying to take her out since the last time i saw here which was Sunday and she's been flaking all week. Deep down i know shes still seeing her ex which pisses me off because i've done so well till now. I don't want to confront her just yet but i'm sure she is still seeing him while she's seeing me. And i know for a fact that shes with him tonight watching the new james bond movie. WTF should i do or wat did i do wrong? should i continue pursuing this broad or just say fuck it and move on? how can i eliminate the ex bf???

damn this isnt a useful answer

but man... thats not something i would do lol...

w/e its legit pua for sure

no doubt legit

just let it happen. lol it will either happen or not

the last 4-5 times? How many times have you chilled with her? You should have brought this girl back to your place by now and got her comfortable in your reality (f-close by day three is all it should take).

Don't worry about her ex until shes actually your girlfriend. Jealousy will kill any attraction you may have built up to now. DO NOT CONFRONT! BE ADVISED! Seriousness is the polar opposite of fun, and that's what she needs to feel whens shes with you.

Set up something that allows you to escalate with the option to relocate... Catch my drift???

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5 times i would say, but the first time we hung out her ex was with her at the time. I know this shoulda been done deal already but thing is her ex is the only guy shes ever slept with. Shoulda had a f-close the last time i saw her but she brought a friend and bringing her back to my place in that time and given situation was out of the picture. Well i haven't spoken to her since thursday and she never responded to my call or text yesterday so i'm thinkin i'm gona freeze her out for a bit and see wat happens. Thnx swoop for the input will def. set up something that allows me to escalate with the option to relocate.

she is an attention whore, thats all

she will go through loads of cocks and bad boyfriends before she gets her act together and starts acting decisive.

For you, just keep gaming else where, just make sure you don't get friend zoned (but be there for her if she needs you)

This is why I am done with teenage drama queens.

LOL just noticed this is a good rhyme, shit i should be rapping haha!

OG^^ she maybe an attention whore but i'm pretty sure she's not. but yea i'll keep that in mind.

go meet other girls already...

stop wasting your time on this chick.

if it was gonna happen, it would have happened already.

I agree with the other guys here - meet other girls.

When you've been gaming a while and get good, you'll no doubt forget this one chick out of the scores that you dated and fucked, but if you do remember her, you'll just recall how false the concept of monogomy really is.
Girls (and guys of course) only adhere to monogomy if a) it's convenient and b) they're preaching to a friend about a boyfriend/girlfriend they don't like.
The reality is that nobody cares, and when you develop your POWER as a PLAYER, you will be one of the few people in the world who understands what fidelity really is and decides for yourself whether you wanna be:
Good, and stay faithful in relationships (even though you know you could fuck other girls)
or
Be a naughty boy and chase pussy, thus redering any relationships as nothing more than a sex-safety-net.