this is my worst area. i open great and my conversation is great while it lasts but i run out of steam and dont know where to go then there are gaps and lack of stories or comfort and i let other guys in on my shit to easy at that point

First I doubt you have a problem talking, you have 98 posts in one day. Second make up some dhv stories, and practice them so they become a part of who you are. Once you run out of things to say, wait for her to reinitate the chat its a huge ioi if she does. If she doesnt number close her.

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I guess it gives us all hope if a major hip-hop artist struggles with these things...
Canned stuff can help, try not to interview yet try and get to know what she's passionate about so you can give an opinion on what in her character makes that so. That makes you look like you understand her, and it creates a connection.

well i think i need to stop trying so hard. i dont focus on what im sayin (im spontanious) but i do have in the back of my mind too much focus on the goal

today i had a GREAT convo wiht a girl iv always had chemistry with. she has a boyfriend rihgt now but we both know that we think each other is really cool and fun

i think i have so much forward momentum and energy that i feel too much responsibility in the convo and try to entertain the girl too much(even if she doesnt know because i neg her and push-pull)

thanks for the advice ill look around this section more. i think i need more PRACTICE story telling. i kinda make my stories really fun so much that the punchline (the point of the story) isnt really even that special anymore and leaves an awkward transition to the next topic especially if people have been laughing all along and then when i conclude they quicly stop laughing lol...

i could not be a comedian at this point haha