The first thing everyone should realise is...

REJECTION is fine... it's normal... and it's NO PROBLEM!
A girl that I didn't know, that has no value to me yet, has said NO to me. Why should I take it personally?

I think the whole game of indirect is built around NOT ACCEPTING REJECTION...

But I ask you...

Who are you to impose to a girl how to react?
Maybe she's on her period. Maybe she indeed has a boyfriend and doesn't want to cheat. Maybe indeed she doesn't feel attracted to you.
Or maybe she didn't like the way you approached (i.e. your behavior... not you as a human being, BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T KNOW YOU!)

IS THAT SO BAD TO ACCEPT?

The more you accept it, the more freedom it gives you to talk to the women you truly like and find the one that has interest in you as well...

Yes we develop our personality and communication skills, but we never take rejection personal.

Think about this for a while... and you will find out DIRECT is a better way to go since you state your intention right away, or soon after you've opened her...

That way she has a choice ... it doesn't mean we have to hear YES out of her mouth... But if she allows you to lead her... by talking, by answering your hand shake when you tell her your name... damn it, that's enough! That's a huge YES! it's subtle but it's a YES!

Seduction is very easy lads, it's not mathematics, it's not A123 C123 S123... that's a method made by and for geeks!

Do you want to be a natural confident man? Then try being upfront about what you want... in a relaxed and DONT-BE-A-JERK way of course.

What do you think about this philosophy guys?

Let's debate...

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Exactly. Rejection is never a personal thing, it is inevitable and you must learn to embrace it. It is what seperates those who like you from those who don't... it's as simple as that. It has nothing to do with coming on too strong or any of that stuff. Guys get rejected tend to think "what if" and try to fix what they did wrong, when in actuality if the girl was into him it wouldn't fucking matter. Instead, they should be thinking like this... would you rather she was honest and let you know she wasn't interested right from the start, or have her sit politely for 5 minutes while you do silly routines only to have the same outcome? Personally I like to weed out the time wasters quickly so I can get the hell on with meeting someone who is actually into me.

this is still hard for me. but ill keep what u said in mind.

This is a great philosophy.

Just go out and have a good time.
Talk to lots of people.
Let shit tests roll right off you.
Understand other AMOGs are just friendly competition, disarm and make friends. It boosts your proof anyways.
Do crash and burns to build confidence/ set state.

Just have fun.

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Hey guys

This rejecting rejection is a lot of shite. There is no such thing as rejection there is only feedback.

As soon as you let other people decide on how you feel about yourself, you are fucked. If I am talking to someone and they don't want to talk to me then my first thought is "what is wrong with them?". I think this because I am nice guy and I am not expecting anything from them, therefore it is impossible for them to reject me.

If you are over attached to the outcome of a situation then you will be rejected the majority of the time.

I work with guys every day helping them with confidence and dealing with rejection. Have a listen to an interview I did with one of my clients and see how his mindset is now completly different.

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Let me know if this makes sense. If you want any help then please message me through this site. I only come on once a week so it is hasrd for me to reply to posts.

Kendall

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i think you've forgotten to mention 1 thing. when your just an AFC rejection actually physically hurts until you actually start disliking women and displaying some misogynistic tendencies! but hey! you'll get over it