| Ok this little situation is somewhat fucked up, and I dont how to go about it...bear with me please, and hopefully some of you can give me possible ways to go about this...
Background info: Currently Im living away from home in a small town so I can play for the sports team in this town. I dont know anybody in the town besides the guys from my team. Since Ive been here I havent been able to sarge at all, because we never have girls at our team parties for some reason, and overall the girls in this town, or lack there of, are very average at best. Last week the guys on my team thought it would be funny to play a joke on me by pretending to be a girl from one of the highschools, and started texting me. And they had me going for abit, but I soon realized the joke was on me. This would lead to me being suspicious of what happened next...
Current Situation: Last night at around 7 im hanging out with some guys on my team, when I gotta text from this girl named Jessica (who Ive never met before) saying...
Alleged HB:"Hey fogell. What you up to tonight. This is jessica. Come to a party at ____ tonight."
So right away I assumed I was getting fucked with again but texted back...
Me: "Hey...Jessica who?"
She responds with...
Alleged HB:"Jessica ________. we should watch a movie or hang out sometime"
So this supposed broad was very forward right away so I really started to believe it was a teamate and didnt text back. But I was with about 7 of em at the time, and I was trying to figure out if someone was fucking with me. But I checked the # on one of my buddies phone, and he had the # down as Jessica ______. So there was legit reason to believe its real. My buddy shows me her facebook, and shes decent. In this town, shes good enough to fuck. However I still wasnt too sure. After about 2 hours, I still hadnt texted back, and get another text saying...
Alleged HB: "Fine...Dont text back then."
So about 10 mins later I get my buddy to give the # a call, and try and find out if its legit or not. So he calls her and goes direct (which I dont think he shouldve), but anyways he calls...and I listen to what he says, he fills in the blanks for her after...
Buddy: "Hey is this Jessica"
Alleged HB: "Ya...whos this?" (party noise in the background)
Buddy: Were u texting my buddy fogell?
Real HB: Ya... (cant really hear her)
convo ends.
So another 10 mins later I text her back...
Me: "Hey sorry didnt text back I was just at the pool (which was true)...ya thatd be cool...sorry my buddy _____ had to call u but he convinced me that it was someone from the team messin with me...a few of us are gonna go out tonight, wheres this party?"
HB: Ha Ha ya i dont know where its at back in 5
Me: k sweet sounds good
Didnt hear back from her the rest of the night, and didnt text back myself. Today, so far havent heard anything, and havent texted myself. However, weird thing happened earlier this afternoon. I was in Walmart with 2 of my buddies, and I notice her in the store but im almost positive she didnt notice me, noticing her. At this point I got kinda flustered, and didnt know what to do. Im with my buddies at this point, and not paying attention to her (my buddies with me dont know who the girl is, nor do they know she apparently texted me). At this point though, im pretty sure she noticed me, cuz I was in her sights. So anyways, stupid AFC mode me, I continue not paying attention, and we leave the store.
So now I dont even know where I stand. This girl prolly thinks Im a giant pussy for not approaching her in the store. Although she never saw me notice her, Nor does she know I didnt know what she looked like or who she was till last night. So its a moot point.
I donno what to do. Should I just wait it out, and see if she texts me. Or do I text her? But even if I did text her I have no fucken clue what to say. And in the back of my mind, I still feel like theres that remote chance that im getting played again. Right now my head is just fucked up with thoughts. On a side note, my former one-itis from highschool pretty much told me everything besides "lets fuck". So Im almost positive im gonna f-close her when I get home (knock on wood), so Im pretty pumped about that.
Im sorry this has been so long, but I just really needed to get my thoughts out of my head...any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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