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PostPosted: Thu Nov 13, 2008 5:45 pm 
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ok this girl at the cafeteria where i talk to girls sometimes was talking to her friends. i neged something they said loud enough for me legit to get into their convo. they thought i was halarious and wanted me to sit with them. i acted like that was kinda strange (yeah right this girl was bangin n her friends were good). so yeah we talk n im not tryin to be a fuckin comedian but they think im great. so HB or super hot babe man she is like damn near perfect starts trying to prove herself to me. it was really gay. like shes all like "my ex's dick was 10 inches" im thinking did she seriously just say that.

like this girl exudes super confidence cuz she must get hit on by 1,000 guys a day but really i dont think shes confident at all who the fuck says shit like that out of no where

n she busts out her phone and shows me a picture. im like omg...

like im not freaked out cuz i dont get freaked out, ill fuck her even if shes a weird freak w/e but im like

uh why are u showing me that get that out of my face n by the way thats def not 10 inches. well i sho9ulnt have said that.. lol

but then shes like... "i could go over to that table of four guys and get all their numbers"

and i say: "well you're kinda cute and those guys are kinda scrub looking so if u were to do that it would seem pretty desparate"

well she gets mad n i change subject n act like i gotta leave. well she says some other cocky stupid shit n im like... "who do u think u r?"

n shes like omg im lik perfect

n im like "well i dont rate girls usually but yeah you're pretty cute i'd give u a 7 on a scale of 1-10"

n shes like SEVEN!!!???

and she goes balistic and starts yelling at the top of her lungs random shit i dont remember and im like uh yeah i g2g

but since then shes been more normal, maybe she wasnt on her meds or somethin

but im not totally hung up on her but i kno her friends casually n i still wanna hit that shit cuz shes 1 of a kind

u kno like 300 the movie

shes a spartan u kno

im not sayinthere arent hotter babes cuz there are but id love to hit that shit just once


u kno i dont kno why im evenaskin this question ill get her.

shes been more normal recently its all good


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I gotta say here sweetie, that girl is off her meds in a bad way.
She's also not all that interested from what I see.
Maybe I'm reading this wrong, but if I'm showing a guy a picture of my ex's ten-inch cock then I'm probably not looking to take him home.
She's definitely trying to scare you off with that lovely move.

As for your rating her a seven and her going ballistic talking about how perfect she is, I gotta ask, was she drunk or high during this encounter?
Any woman in her right mind should know they're not perfect.

What I'm trying to say is, I know you wanna 'hit that shit' but I've seen girls who are 100% crazy bitch, and she's one of them. She's probably very insecure which is why she throws out how perfect she is at you (and probably anyone else).

Like I said, I could be reading this wrong, maybe you came on too strong and made her defensive (I doubt this), maybe she was drunk as shit or still hungover from the night before (this is possible), she could have been on some sort of drugs (also possible, but only if her freak-out was certifiably bat-shit-crazy). But I'm a sciencey-girl and my hypothesis is this: She saw through your pick-up stuff and decided she'd play a little game with you. When you didn't run screaming at the site of her ex's penis (by the way, if he's her ex, why does she still have a picture of his penis on her phone?) she played the 'perfect princess' and flipped when you didn't agree with her majesty.

Either way, this girl is a wicked lot of crazy and my advice to you is find another girl who is just as hot, but much less 'spikey dildo up my ass'.

They exist, I promise.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 15, 2008 5:11 am 
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nah she tried to pick me up. i think i started it by saying something funny but we were having a little thing going that we both were aware of. we both want each other but i think we both should have been more direct.

i think since only me and her knew we were playing gmes and shit turned weird she flipped out.

she's well liked but all her friends are weird..

i agree that she def has something off about her but maybe that was amplified by her having a bad day and me and her playinggames with each other.

i feel i have to give her another chance.

plz understand she is gorgious

shes like a 9 seriously and i rate harsh

but u kno ill be careful.

since then she has like gone out of her way to either compliment me or flirt and i kinda blow her off.

i dunno i think im all set up to hit it, but i just dont want her going ballistic and pulling a knife or sucking my penis off...


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Well it's all up to you, but if she's a PUA too then I'm thinking she just hates the game your spitting at her.
She clearly can't take a neg and is a pile of crazy-bitch.
I don't care if she's a 9, 10, or 53, she's got a pile of drama all over her.
If you can't get her out of your head, I'm tempted to call it one-itis.

Have you targeted any other girls, or is it just her?


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I think you just don't have very good social ettiquette and need to work on that. From how you said it, it sounds like you mostly just spent your time being an arrogant dick and the girl was offended. You are purposely trying to make her think you're not interested because you think that's what you're supposed to do, but it's not. Stop thinking you're better than people and have to pretend that you're not interested in them! I told you the same thing before.

Showing a girl you're attracted makes them more attracted to you if they are interested. So by pretending you're no into her you are actually making it worse. You're pissing her off because she doesn't understand why you don't like her and then you're insulting her on top of that. She was fighting for your attention which is what you are trying to achieve when you are into that whole "neg theory" game and getting women to chase you, so she was doing exaclty what you wanted, but then you insult her for it anyways. YOU were the one being incongruent and messed up, which caused her to act all crazy.

You can't fix anyone elses actions, so stop blaming other people for responding strangely. Fix your own actions and people won't act like that anymore!

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yeah i was rude to her for sure. i realized that and i actually apoligized to her and thats why we are cool now. she trys to talk to me but im not sure if i should or not.

but i appreciate your response as it answers my question. basically i really shouldnt have went down on her level. we both just made each other mad but since i didnt sho my frustration hers just kept getting higher till she blew up

but she must have had issues. thank u both i think i know what to do now.

and yes i obviously need to work onmy attitude


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 16, 2008 3:25 am 
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she def did know i was attracted to her. but she was so overtly full of herself that i showed my attraction 20% that i would to a respectful normally functioning person. and ur wrong about one thing. me being the one who was incongruent. she was incongruent as fuck and def not on her meds. she started it and i went down on her levle

however i have a persistent problem with being cocky and rude which has underlying escalating effects on shit


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jesus titty fucking christ I spent an hour looking for this quote i couldnt think of a better sitituation that this could be used...


One good example is to say to a hot woman who’s
acting arrogant, “You don’t have me fooled for a minute,
dear.”
When she says, “What are you talking about?”, you
say, “Well, I know that most men fall for this ‘I’m
beautiful and aloof and I get my way’ part of your
personality... but I know something that none of them
know... that there’s really another side of you. A side that
none of THEM get to see. I’ll bet you a dollar right now
that I know something about you that no one who’s only
known you for 5 minutes has EVER known... <pause
pause pause>... You may act tough, but you’re actually
EXTREMELY sensitive on the inside. If someone makes a
negative comment to you, you might act like it doesn’t
bother you... but you’ll think about it all the way home...
I know that secretly you’re as sensitive as a little girl...
it’s just that most people never get to meet that part of
you...”
This messes up a cold woman soooo hard that you
have to be ready for instant personality meltdown and a
completely different person to come out of her.


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Sounds familiar, who said that Mystery or Ross Jefferies wasn't it? Make sure you mention who said the quotes you use otherwise it's plagarism man.

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 16, 2008 5:11 am 
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David DeAngelo

it'd be different if I said it like "omg i came up with the perfect line for this situation all by my self!!!!"


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it'd be different if I said it like "omg i came up with the perfect line for this situation all by my self!!!!"
No...you're still supposed to give credit if you know the source. If you absolutely don't know the source, then at least make it clear that it wasn't you that came up with it. Don't argue, that's just the rules and I'm letting you know so that you aren't breaking them, that's all. If you don't believe me, then go read them again:

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well thanks for telling us, but im pretty sure any confident successful pua (whoever said that) wouldn't be bitch enough to fuck with him when he clearly said that it was a quote...

a quote bra...

a quote

u dont say its a quote when ur trying to take credit for it

unless u are so cocky u talk about urself in the third person

aka:

"omg eminem has this awesome quote: (fill in the blank with something really bomb hot shit)"


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well thanks for telling us, but im pretty sure any confident successful pua (whoever said that) wouldn't be bitch enough to fuck with him when he clearly said that it was a quote...

a quote bra...

a quote

u dont say its a quote when ur trying to take credit for it

unless u are so cocky u talk about urself in the third person

aka:

"omg eminem has this awesome quote: (fill in the blank with something really bomb hot shit)"
Honestly, just stop arguing RIGHT now. I'm a mod, I'm telling you the rules. Play by them. Period. Honestly I don't care how you feel about them, they are the rules.

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lololololololololol I wasn't trying to be defiant!


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Slightly off-topic I know, but holy crap, Eninem, where do you even find time to sarge? You've been on this forum for three days and already your post count is higher than a lot of peoples.

It's mind-boggling. :shock:


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