Hello friends, new to the PUA scene but i like what i see and hope to master it. Anyway here we go. So theres this girl. I dated her for bout roughly 4 months about a year ago. She broke up with me, claiming we fought to much. We stayed on good terms tho, and about a month ago she started talking to me more. Like talking sweet as if she wanted to pursue a relationship again. So after some text flirting and what not i make my way up to her house. She gives me a hug and we go inside. She sits in a chair, therefore i have to sit on the couch, away from her. Note: this was common she did this alot when we dated. It was as if she could care less if she was beside me and that made me want to be near her that much more. this chick is good. Seeing that wasnt how i wanted to spend my night, i suggested we go for a walk. This worked as we held hands and snuggled lightly. We get back to her house and it was the same thing, me on one side her on another, she choose that of course. We did end up having sex tho, she went to lay down in her room and i followed and we ended up doing it. After we did it she snuggled up on me and opened up alot more. That was about for days ago and i havent heard from her since. I tried to iniatie a convo thru text once, she didnt respond so i didnt push it. What do i do? This chick seems to have mastered push/pull. When shes not near me i want to be that much closer to her, and when she does pull me in close it it leaves me wanting more. I hate to say it but she as a spell on me, same as she did when we dated. What can i do to reverse this? How can i put the ball in my court so she will be wanting more of me? Help me out guys i like this chick but dont want to need her , she needs to need me.

where you went wrong bro is that the tension was broken, you had sex.
best thing in that situation would of been to kiss her [with passion], then leave -pull in two directions.


Also you mention she was doing things she did last time, you need to stop them happening, if she sits on the chair do something that will get her onto the sofa, ie 'show me your hands' you look at them, then jump back onto the sofa, tel her that you'll read them if she sit opposite you on the sofa -run the gullible line on her.

Other thing is to get her out with Your Female friends meat up with her but be with friends females.


she has had her piece so you are starting from scratch to build up Tension again, start your own mini push pull, literally pull her towards you the though her away, i'm sure you can improvise


all the best bro, any help feel free to pm me,