I've known this college girl for about 2 months and we've been hanging out here and there. I always make fun of her, she lightly smacks me on the shoulder and she laughs at most of my comments. So lately I've just started reading about this PUA stuff and I've been trying to use it on her. For example today I neged her a couple of times during class and then after we went to eat lunch I started flirting with her. The thing is she is kind of in a relationship right now, but it's going down hill. So I basically cheered her up and told her she was a very attractive and had a great personality. She immediately began blushing and looking down after that and said thank you in a really shy voice. Basically I'm trying to show her that I like her and maybe we can go a level higher than friendship. Is what I'm doing correct and how can I show her more efficiently?

ok, she's in a relationship that's going downhill... so you need to make her realize how crap her current bf is without actually saying anything bad because then she'll get defensive.

talk him up, saying things like "i bet he's a great guy and calls you like 5 times a day just to say hi or to tell you that you're beautiful and that he cant stop thinking about you". see what i'm doing here? i'm setting a benchmark which he doesnt meet, effectively making him look bad without actually saying anything bad. this will get her thinking... after that, do a DHV. in 2 minutes you've lowered his value and increased yours.

kino is very important, so touch her.

2 months is a long times hey, so chances are that you're already zoned and that those little slaps are only friendly and playful ones. you've already got a fair bit of comfort, so work on attraction.

I would say if your okay going with her even if she has a relation ship then go head I would suggest if your really trying to have something use bf destroyers ... and kino her up girls love kino i had a girl pretty recently ask y did i let go of her when i kino her and i mean i barely knew the girl also u may consider some disqualifications but yea i'm guessing u built comfort already so your ur compliments are justified try some of what was said and give us an update

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Thanks, great responses! I should of tried that technique of sprucing up her boyfriend to the impossibly perfect guy, but instead I was talking down about him and how he was clingy, needy, and wanting to spend too much time with her. I'm going to try and be a tiny bit more touchy now and I'm not really sure of the terms but I'm guessing KINO is being more touchy and flirty?

kino refers to touching, yeah.

check this thread for PUA terms:
terms-of-importance-great-for-new-members-vt3077.html

Okay so I'm going to try and lure this girl in a little more, at least until she senses that I like her and then I want to try something new. I always walk her home from school, it's like a short 5 minute walk, but I'm going to try and do a big counter-intuitive move, like decide not to walk her home one day. Is this a good idea? If it is how can I tell her that I can't walk her home in a cool way and if it isn't, what are the other things I can do?

One other thing is, how can I tell that she likes me? Although we get a long well and we've known each other for a long time. I don't want to just reach out and grab her hand. Are there other ways for me to find out? I don't want to be blatant and ask her if she is attracted to me or would that be a good idea?

dude IOIs will only get you so far... as for if she actually likes you or not, i would just bring up a joking subject involving you 2 dating. like...

"haha you know we fight like were a couple..."
"... well if we were dating that (something random) would not be a problem.."

good luck man

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just go for it and lock ur arm in with hers... while walking the thing is to be not to clingy or like u like it, if ur goin to be counter intuitive say something along the lines of were getting to close i think we should take time away u seem like trouble for me...

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