Is height a problem?



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 11, 2008 10:55 am 
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Height goes into the looks category. Very little of game is dependent on looks. Women think they want tall men, but what they really want is someone who can protect them.
Hight does go in the looks department, but also go in the social department as well. There has been various studies done on height and the results show that people give taller people power by default, and the taller the person the more money they are more likely to make. As mention most women have a lose/general/casual "You must be this tall to ride" policy. Because women have in general been socially programed to get/look for/go after the taller guys. In reality it is as you said, they want a guy to protect them.
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Beyond that, so many different aspects of game affect desirability---for example, Mini-Me gets more ass than your average GQ model simply because he is more famous and has more social proof going for him at all times---that height is irrelevant.
I agree there are many parts of the game. But height is one of them, because for one it is part of who you are. And two if your not confident and secure in your height, it is going to show big time. And what girl wants an a guy insecure in his height?
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Bottom line is, if you got game, your looks matter little after the first thirty seconds. If you subscribe to the school of thought that your height is a handicap in the field, then it will become your limiting belief.
Looks matter for the first 10 to 30 seconds, not afterwards. Because in that time girls would already checked you out and made an opinion about you. There is a reason why first impressions are important. But I agree that if your height is a handicap then it will hurt your game.
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This is untrue, and it is opposite the mindset of the pickup community. It goes to "staying within your league", except instead of league you have replaced it with "height range". Please understand that this is an unnecessary psychological handicap you have placed on yourself (and others when you try to convince them), and that male PUAs in the community regularly date in the complete spectrum of height ranges for women, not just women shorter than them.
First off I am 6'6. Not exactly short. And as I mention above I was referring to the social programing girls get when it comes to height and guys by that line. It was not meant to come off as a psychological handicap. I even told the op to game girls taller than him self, which puts me in line with what you said about shorter guys gaming girls taller than them.


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I'm 6'5" and my wing is probably around 5'8". It's weird. I think sometimes its actually a little easier for him because he comes off less threatening than I do. It's all about how you carry yourself. Realize you have to deal with what you got.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 12, 2008 12:02 am 
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Wheres the skill of staying in your comfort zone. You should sarge for taller girls, if short, younger if older, older if young. If your mid twenties pulling mid twenties wheres the skill of the game? You are exactly what she is looking for. I like to challenge myself im thirty and 5 10 currently trying my game on tall younger girls. Thats game.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 12, 2008 1:48 am 
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Wheres the skill of staying in your comfort zone. You should sarge for taller girls, if short, younger if older, older if young. If your mid twenties pulling mid twenties wheres the skill of the game? You are exactly what she is looking for. I like to challenge myself im thirty and 5 10 currently trying my game on tall younger girls. Thats game.
Girls generally don't go over 5'10" height wise. :lol:


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No 6 foot blondes in Cali? lol


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 12, 2008 12:32 pm 
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No 6 foot blondes in Cali? lol
There are, but they are freaking hard to find. The only time I get to see girls that tall is when there is a ballet going on at my work (I work at a performing arts center). As thats when all the tall chicks come out and I get to be a kid in a candy store. Because not only are there tall girls about me, my bosses don't mind if I chat up the patrons as long as I do my job. :twisted:


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