Hey guys.

There's this girl I met (about a 7) a day ago and we're going to the movies tomorrow (buying her own ticket ofcourse etc.). I picked her up at a club. The problem is I had like a 20min chat with her there and used up my main stuff. I don't know how to keep her entertained tomorrow lol. Everything is cool - I got IOIs, light kino and a number/kiss close. I just dont want to fuck it up the next day just by not having anything to talk about (she's chatty and I don't want her to take over).

Ok a bunch of stuff here. First off pay for the ticket so you don't seem cheap, it's not supplicating don't worry. If she objects tell her it's ok and if she objects again then let her pay.

Second off shift your mindset here. Stop thinking of this as your time to entertain her, you'll kill yourself that way and create crazy anxiety. This is a chance for you to get to know her and see if she's worth bringing into your life. You said you entertained her a lot so far? Good, then let her entertain you now. The best thing you can do is just enjoy yourself without worrying about her, if you have a fun time I promise she will to since energy transfers. Also the old school rule of be interested and interesting.

Third it's good that she's chatty. Let her talk and be chatty because this is investment on her part, be a good listener and get to know her. Everyone's favorite topic is themselves and she'll enjoy talking to you while simultaneously investing and creating a connection which leads to more attraction. However you are right about leading. Let her talk her heart out but make sure that it's you who is controlling the interaction through qualification.

Honestly the best thing is really for you to just relax and enjoy yourself while taking on the screener role, not the entertainer role.

Hope this helps

Psych

Thanks alot Psych for your tips.

Well I honestly had nothing new to say to her. Felt really awkward when I stared at her or like anywhere and her too.
I'm pretty new to this gaming and I feel I just can't "pull the trigger" many many times. It sucks. All I got is like more kisses and one short french kiss.

Actually, I feel like having a girlfriend is stopping me from doing lots of things. I need to make up my mind

First look at the positives, you're getting kisses which shows you obviously likes you. Just adopt the mentality that you will eventually sleep with this girl and it's not a race, the tortoise beat the hair remember?

Second day 2's come with practice. I'll honestly admit I've just started really experimenting with the whole "dating" thing again like dinners and movies (to see if I can make them work) and it usually is an awkward experience because of the situation. I'm sure I'll figure it out but I'm just challenging myself here. Usually I'd bring them to a club or if it's the daytime something engaging like bowling, ice cream, or mini golf.

Third if you have a girlfriend hopefully you're being honest with her and it's an open relationship. It's your choice and you're entitled to do what you want but I've gone that way before and it really is bad for your overall innergame and way of viewing yourself. Being genuine and honest makes you feel much better as a person and you know in your heart that you really are adding value to women's lives and will always leave them better then you found them.

With that said having a girl you're already emotionally attatched to does make gaming much harder because it's more difficult to form connections with other girls.

Hope this helps

Psych

Thanks man.

I'm seeing her again every second day. Going great so far. Both into each other, can afford to be quiet now more often as we know each other better.