So this girl in my class and me get along great. We spend most of the class flirting whatever. Once a week it works out that we both have just enough time to grab lunch between classes. Anyway, after the second lunch I tell her I want to see her out of class and she insists she takes my number. I don't hear from her for like 5 days on Halloween when she texts me to go to this local bar with her and her friends. Long story short i couldn't make it. We went out for lunch once after that and I told her to come walk my dog with me, this has worked for me a lot in the past. Either way I didnt get a chance to because she flaked out on me. Jump to my friday class I tell her we should get together but we work out that I have to work sat and sun and that leaves friday and she works late but she tells me shell text me afterward s. She doesn't. I didn't call her or anything because homie dont play that. Either way I am going to be going out to lunch with this girl at least one more time as she bet me that Obama would lose for a lunch. The thing is she seems to like me, she laughs at all my jokes, I've caught her looking at me in class. So what the fuck my friends? I realize this is an AFC problem but any help would be appreciated.

sound like just bad timing on both parties. So far so good. Just keep up with your game. On another note what are you goals with her? K-close F-close, relationship? I'd like to help more with more info.

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Taking on note how new you are at this..., and how much you seem to like her..., I'd say:

Shes IOD'ing you HARD with those flakes and stuff, no she doesn't "like" you, at least not that way. You like her too much, and this leads to you misinterpreting her signals, which makes you think she likes you.

The truth hurts, I know.


And now to do some damage-control and prevent you from suiciding yourself , I can say that all hope isn't lost. Not at all.

You might just get her, if you start playing your cards right, which I highly doubt at the moment.

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Wow, those are two contradicting interpretations. So.... what the fuck am I supposed to do. In answer to that first posters question I think this girl is relationship material. How do I not fuck this up then? Anything else you want to know to get me an answer?

looks like right now you are still in the Pre-LJBF stage. just keep playing it cool. the not calling thing... you have to call once in a while. She might be flaking on you because she thinks "oh he doesnt ever call me" either call or text . in your case i'll text. Dont be to need in the text or what not, short simple words. She probably already knows you like her (girls can sense that)

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Alright so she texted me at like 12 last night, too bad I work in the morning and had to sleep. Do I text her back a day late or should I just leave it two days until I see her in class?

just text her back " got your text, talk to you later" let her know you got the text but when you say " talk to you laters" showing her that you're not needy and wanna talk with her right away. better late then never eh?

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dude if your having to fight this hard from the begging... considering i just got out of a relationship i would say if you start anything with this girl dont go past fuck buddies or close friends.

in a relationship scenario it sounds like you like her a lot more than she does you, so save yourself the pain you would feel later and just stay out of the whole relationship thing...

good luck

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It really hasn't been a fight!? I mean it's not like I'm crazy about this girl and only see her and all that bs but all the same I'd like to give it a go. I just want to know the best way some of you guys think to play it. And whats with all the cynicism? Some girls you just gotta work a little more, no? She could be playing it cool or maybe just genuinely busy, it's too early in the game to tell for sure. Did I just answer my own question?