i work at the mall which means every now and then HB6-10 pass by.

40% of the time i am. 60% of the time i am not in the zone.

when i am in the ZONE... i am carefree/laidback attitude, smiling, cracking jokes, not really caring about what others think, doing my own thing.

this usually happens when i am with friends, talking with them about some subject and some customer comes by ... i will be so friendly with them and DOMINANT and at the same crack jokes.. (they i guess in a way give me a security blanket)

when i am not in the zone. which is most of the time. i have big eyes. so when i am nervous ....i look as if i have seen a ghost my eyes so wide as if they are about to pop out and they get teary. not very dominant. weak voice. i walk really fast. hyperventillate

what kills the zone: when my friends arent around me . .. which is 50% of the time.

I am sometimes so confident that i can take over the world and others when people just trample/ walk all over me. how can i stay in the zone all the time. with/without my friends being around me

well for me i find some good music and play it while i'm working. If the music is good it keeps up my spirits. Trying to keep in the Zone all the time is hardwork. But when you start being in the zone more aka High Confindence it just sticks with you. Plus this will help you in your job more. I take that your in Sales. Its easyer for you to work on Approches and opening since... its your Job. So enjoy your work. Pretend that ITS your job to pick up people and you get paid for it. It seems like you are worried about not being Winged or having a comfort space. Another thing that will help you is Do a bunch of Approches while you are not at work. You'll see how easy it be and you'll have no trouble at work in No time.

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