Hey, this is my first post so here it goes...

I'm going to a local community college where I see lots of attractive girls everyday. Often times if I just happen to catch some girls eye they smile for a second. I was wondering if that meant anything?

My thinking is that its mostly just them being polite and it doesn't mean anything except that I over analyze the situation, but I also came up with a) they think I'm a creeper and wonder why I glanced over at them or b) they think I seem normal enough and I could just go up and start talking.

Anyways, thanks in advance.

There must be some reason they choose to smile at you. I'd take it as an IOI. Approach them and keep them smiling till you at least #-close

Most girls, especially college and mature ones, won't just give a courtesy smile for no reason. I'd take as there's at least a hint of interest. If not.. open them and create some interest

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Hey I appreciate the responses, I'm definitely keeping them in mind, as you guys are probably right about this.

this can also be used as a great opener. smile at the chick, if they smile back, then game her. if else, then the chick is just depressed and wouldve been a waste of time anyway.

Smiles are good...then again, everyone smiles. Unless its very intentional I wouldn't count it as a big deal. See if she holds eye contact with you. If that happens- that means something. Don't over think this stuff

Hey, I'll freely admit that I've failed plenty of closes. Ha ha . . . this reminds me. The last failed # close (when I was in this weird emotional funk) was when a girl stared at me and I smiled back and just pounced on her. "Hey, what's up?"

Fluff . . .

Then I did this stupid palm reading trick where I don't really tell her anything but hold her hands for a while and pretend to be very serious. After a minute, she goes "So, what do my palms say?"

"Wha? . . . eh . . I don't know, I was just holding your hands . . "

She smiled and smiled but when I got to the #, she fled the scene like a bank robber.

Weird . . . anyhow, smiles are usually 100% success ratio if you run it right.

realistic optimism is the way to go man. Optimistic people have been shown to have better immune function, live longer, and be more resilient after setbacks. What does this have to do with your question? pessimistic slightly optimistic

an even better thing to believe might be they see your radient charm and want to get to know you. Why not believe that? I assume you have the ability to be radient and charming do you not?

If you go talk to them and fail then continue along the optimism path. Failure sucks, but an optimist learns from it, they see a better brighter future. Failure sets them back only slightly and when they recover they are that much stronger for it. Stop making excuses and go see for yourself. I think the best source for info on this question would be the girls themselves. Why not just ask them?

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If this is the case then at least 30 girls a day wanna bang me. I get a lot of smiles and eye contact. I can't be the only one on here who does.

maybe, but you can at least be the one who approaches and sees what was actually meant by that smile. Even if she is just smiling to be polite she is making that efforts towards you. Why not reward her for that effort with some pleasant conversation?

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