now i know this sounds stupid but it seems like i just dont know how anymore. I meet people, i sometimes exchange numbers. but i have no idea how to make new friends that wana hang out and go party. I know my shyness is part of this but like how do you just meet new people? ive never thought it was just easy

right im postin a thread on all this shit.

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i feel the same way. i went from highschool to college and found out that my skill of making friends wasn't very good. =\ . im trying though. putting my self out there.

i suck at it. but i made like 8 today somehow. i just said "my current friends locally (im at a new college campus) arent working out and iv known this so today i will try to change it"

well actually i said that like almost a week ago but it worked out today!

IM happy


hang out dont force urself on people.

sometimes u have to hang out thru existing friends and meet their friends or new peple in presence of peple u dont like

go thru the hoops. dont think its magic. make it happen


take life by the horns.

try new things and hobbies. new job. broaden ur horizons talk to people u never thought of talking to for w/e reason. u know. meet people and talk in settings u usually dont like in the elivator or waiting in line etc

i hope iv helped. sometimes see if an old friend is cooler now (or u have more chemistry now) that happened WONDERFULLY for me 1.5 yrs ago now we are best friends and we never had been...

i am trying too ... i dont have any close friends or anyone I can rely on. i really feel like starting my own thread but dont feel like it. so people help me out too ..

i dont have any freinds i can rely on. on top of head i had three friends whom i shared stuff with but dont really talk to them anymore .

1st- this guy though was there for me sometimes. always wanted something from me. he would always want me to fill his car up .. borrow stuff from. he would never give it back, he would remind you of every time he been there for me. i just stopped talking to him .. its been 3 months now.

2nd. me and the first used to hang out always. it was always us 3 . the guy is still a friend of mine but i am trying to break it with him but am not cause' i dont have anyone else right now. this guy doesnt have any opinon on anything. he always did waht the 1st told him to .... hes superficial, materialistic, never there for me. he just jumps on teh band wagon and goes with whoevers "popular"

3rd. we became good friends .. we worked together . we got in a fight two weeks back. we work at the same place but never talk anymore. through him i made alot of friends and knew alot of people at school ... this guy has hate issues. he hates everyone and holds grudges for small things. he cant see anyone else succeed or lets anyone. he cocksblock a lot.... i used to like this girl and she liked me back until he started liking her and started saying stuff like i am a player and only wants sex which made her lose interest in me. hes doing it again to another girl i like whom i met through him . .... he wouldnt ask her out but also wouldnt let anyone else either .... anyways i really feel like beating the shit out of him as hes gossiping again these days . at work he would ask the other people infront of me if they all want to go somewhere after work to make me jealous ... he did so the last time i got in a fight with him. hes doing it again .......

thats pretty much the only people i knew or hung out with.... .. i want to start with a fresh slate forget all these people and go on my own. make other friends but cant seem to