getting over my own lmr



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lordica
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 07, 2008 7:39 pm 
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okay here's the deal,

a few times i had a chance to grab myself a gf, but when that crucial moment came up, it was I who resisted and seen the girl so damn low that my pride(? i don't know exactly what it was, it's just a rough guess it was pride) didn't let me say yes, and I kicked them away...

now, I'll have quite a few chances of making a gf, how can I get over this please?

cheers guys
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stop pulling fatties :lol:
ok, seriously now...
if you're resisting then it's most probably because you arent comfortable or into them, in which case i would rather tell you to eject than to force yourself to go where you dont want to.
however, if you are comfortable and into them and you're still resisting then it might not be pride (as you said) but rather insecurity that's keeping you from making the move because you're fearing rejection etc.
how old are you if i may ask? it could also boil down to emotional maturity and that you're just not ready
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I'm 19 and so far I've been girlfriendless if that helps
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i'm going to go with the fear of rejection then.
you're scared of being shot down so you're looking for reasons why you shouldn't give it a go and only focusing on negative qualities. by doing that she becomes less attractive to you and in effect you feel that she's not good enough, even though she probably is and you just screwed it all up.

work on your inner game...
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thank you sir :)
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