So there's this really classy chick, who I'm going to call Alley.

Tall blonde, perfect frame, beautiful personality, really friendly, always happy. Great job (government assistant), smart. Perfect...

Everything started Valentine's Day this year. It was Valentines Day at a certain house party. This was before I played The Game. She went to a bar with a gay friend, and it turns out he took her to a gay bar. Nobody flirted with her, so her self esteem was down. She hops over to me, who is almost passed out on the couch, pulls me up and starts dancing with me. At this point, I was a decent looking dude, but had no Cocky/Funny (well, I'm naturally cocky, and naturally funny, but I didn't know how to play that into flirting), knew nothing about push/pull or anything else. Well, I didn't see her for a few weeks after that. Next thing I know, she's friendly, but she's hooked up with this AMOG sort. 8 years older than me too. I don't see or talk to her for weeks, then out of the blue she adds me on facebook.

One day I bump into her in the mall with her new boyfriend and I AMOG the shit out of him. A few weeks later they broke up.

We chat a litle on facebook on and off, but I never really hit on her, except for when she complains that her new blonde hair gives her lots of unwanted attention, I respond "Yeah, I know what you're talking about. I have that problem unless I wear eye contacts to make my eyes ugly." She laughed...

A while after that, I bumped into her in a club, and danced a little, but she was in the middle of leaving when I found her, and she ended up leaving.

Again I talk every few weeks on facebook, but never ask her out.

She ends up taking a 2 month break from facebook, and now she's back on. Last time I had contact with her was in July. I wished her happy bday, she never wrote back...

How would you best recommend reigniting something with her. There has been a little flirtation between us, but never a real... bond. Or sexual tension.

Any recommendations. And also, she's about 7 years older than me which makes it a little awkward... how'd be the best way to contact her without coming across as creepy or needy. I haven't msged her since July... Finally, she's friends with some of my friends, so I can't 'throw fate in the wind' like I'd do with a random pickup and just msg her, and don't give a flying fuck if she likes me or not. If she thought I was creepy or needy somehow, she'd talk to my friends, and I'd lose Social Value... what do you think?

Nobody?

reigniting attraction is hard dude. or at least, i find it difficult... i'll take a crack at this though, maybe it helps.

easy route - forget about her and game other girls. if she's mates with your mates then you might run into each other again, she'll see you with some other girls and you can work the jealousy angle. pop into A2 and go from there.

difficult route - make contact on facebook. find something to tease her about, share some light-hearted banter etc and figure out a way to #-close her. after #-closing, continue the light hearted c&f banter, teasing her and DHVs. invite her to join you for something, be it shopping or a drink or a walk or whatever. use this time to DHV, kino, neg etc (basically A2 and A3).
by now you should've received a few IOI's.

(btw - any critique on the above will be appreciated. reigniting attraction is a definite sticking point for me)

Thanks for the tips mate.

I know I'm not going to end up bumping into her again. She is a friend of a couple of acquaintances of mine, but I don't really hang out with them anymore. Thing is, those guys are friends with some of my closer friends and coworkers, so if I fucked up with her, I'd lose value.

So my only possibility is to direct contact her. Contacting her with a neg is a good idea, something I didn't think of. Still, it's difficult to find stuff to neg without coming across as creepily stalking her, or harking back to months ago... I'll give it a shot though.

maybe try find something on her facebook page that you can neg her about?
however, i'd probably open and start the convo with something like "hey, you just popped into my head. thought i'd say hi quick and see how you're doing before i head out." or something to that effect.

if she replies, cool. now find something to tease her about. keep a playful and energetic tone btw.

if she doesnt reply, then i'd just leave it and forget about her.

Did you guys have a little inside joke that you can remind her about?

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excellent idea.
would work great for opening her on facebook.