So I got this girls number on monday, called her on thursday (yesterday) afternoon trying to set up a date or have her come over or something. Problem is she didn't answer when I called and I realized after it was over I seemed way too hesitant in the message, not enough confidence because I was way too nervous about calling her for some reason. I told her to give me a call back but haven't gotten it, I know it's not because she's busy since we both work on campus at school so we have everyone's work schedules.

I knew she was working last night so I told her I wanted to set up something for tonight (friday), I was thinking of sending her a text turning her ignoring me into a joke type of thing and try to lure her back but I need some advice on what to say, only thing I've come up with so far is:

No call back? That's harsh, thought you would have wanted to have fun and go out tonight =P


But that ending seems pretty weak? Any advice on how to handle this?

I wouldn't call or text again. She received your voicemail, and anything more will not come off well. And don't bust her balls yet; you said yourself that she might be busy and may not have even gotten it yet.

What I'd do is look to make alternate plans for the evening. If you want to contact her again, you could fire a quick text saying something like "Going to XYZ with friends, should be fun. You can meet us there if you like." Otherwise, next time you talk with her, make it clear that you were just fine without her and that she missed out on a good time.

My roommates were setting up a party for tonight so I've already got alternate plans, I was gonna try to take her out for a date and then possibly if she was interested bring her back to the party if she wanted to, if not then just end it there and go hang out with everyone there instead (live in a college dorm as an fyi).

I'll wait until Saturday to say anything maybe send her a quick text then instead and take it from there telling her that she missed out, try and rebuild my worth to her since I'm probably pretty low after such a terribly unassertive voice mail message that I left. If she really wanted to hang out she'll get a hold of me, just sucks that I messed up right off the start by being too nervous, sigh. Hopefully I can save it on Saturday if she doesn't call back.

But thanks!

I wouldn't rush yourself to much and put a time limit it on asking her. You do need to make plans and all but after all one key step to success with women is putting a fake time limit on how long you'll be there. Don't let it work in reverse with you.

If you are going to text her to somewhat bust on her. Here's an idea. It's worked great with me it's always a go to for me


You: "Hey I feel neglected, you should move me up on your list."
Girl: -Cute innocent answer-
You: (blow off answer) "Yeah you know neglect is a form of abuse, I may have to call the hotline on
you"
Girl: "Oh no, you wouldn't!"
You: -blowing off answer again- using cocky funny "yeah you know I may have to move you down on my girlfriend list from girlfriend number one to number five or six or so"

It can lead to plenty of opportunities on where you want to take it

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yeah sometimes u just dont have to rush the call game yet i found out ...i mean u see her around campus and all that, so wait a week after u got the number talk to her on campus again and ambiguously hint at goin out and tell her ur goin to call her when ur bout to leave

then from there call her

and the first time she doesnt pick up the phone then don't leave a message wait a bit then the next few days call if she doesn't pick up dont leave a message and then around the third u wanna probably leave a message or send a text message

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