Guys there is this girl i like , ALOT... yeh im new here.. but have been using these forums for some time now.. learning. Heres the situation.. i actually got somewhere with this girl, she's fun, HOT, funny and smart, everything u want a girl to be. Halloween day i got with her, we went to a party after, and she kept pulling away, getting me jealous, i didn't let it get to me. Next day, me and my friends went to another after Halloween party. I hooked up with a girl there, and told her when she asked. Now she is pulling away, but not just, she is also not talking to me, like not at all. Sees me in school and just hi bye thing. usually would ask me to walk her to class or chill. Anything i say she rolls her eyes at. On aim no point in a convo, i get 1 word replys, same with txts. This is really getting to me, i really like this girl. And my guess if that now she is feeling used by me, i never really showed THAt much attraction to her.. although i do like her a lot. I've read that you cant really show a girl u like her or tell her, you shouldnt chase her either. I really need help, this is driving me crazy, she is really pissed, or seems to be, i tried talking to her but she keeps acting as if everything is ok, telling everything is fine, playing dumb, although she knows its not. I feel like a dik for making her feel used, and getting myself here. I need your advice/help, wat do i do now, or dont do. thanks a lot.

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Had a similar situation where I joked to a friend about 'pivoting' her and in my stupid ways . . . I actually did . . . and ditched her at a club.

Let some time pass and then just meet her for coffee. Start fresh. Show clear intent right away.

ya I agree. let things cool off, try not to show her that you are really attached to her emotionally. wait like 3 weeks, and ask her if she wants go get some lunch, that you wanna catch up with her or something. then try and reignite.

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hmm thnx guys.. hope it works..

Do you mean that you told the girl you hooked up with someone else in order to get her jealous? You should never tell a girl this. Once you tell her that you hooked up with someone else then she will think that if you and her ever hook up that you're going to talk about you and her hooking up. Therefore, she doesn't want to get with you because she doesn't want her rep to go down.

If someone does ask you something like that you should always reply with something to the extent of "I don't know where you come from, but where I come from that's not something polite to ask"

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