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i met this girl 2 months ago at a party... haevnt seen her since and most likely wont... but she saw me the other day and said omg its you wahts ur facebook... so now i have to write on her wall... this girl is legit 9 out of 10... so it has to be slick to contiunue the convo so i can get a number... help?
You need to talk about something interesting tying back to when you met her originally if you can remember that. The reason for this is you want her to associate those good feelings she had for you originally with you now. It's obvious she thinks a lot of you or she wouldn't have asked for your facebook. So, I'd say something like...."Great bumping into you at the mall. xxxx Insert Conversational topic from first ever conversation xxx"
You just want to get her talking. After a few messages back and forth simply ask for her number by saying, "This is getting interesting...how can we continue this conversation in real time?"
You need to get her comfortable and attracted to you enough to go from Facebook to talking to her on the telephone. Then from a few conversation on the phone or a good long conversation, get her comfortable enough to see you in person again on a date. This is the path you will have to follow. It is called "
comfort escalation."
You can do it! Good luck, and have fun!