dude, don't do the same old boring dating routines that every other guy does! (dinner and a movie) night
Instead, you should take her somewhere where you think it would be different. Examples would be: a whole in the wall dougnut shop, nice scenery place, if you are close to a stadium take her to the stands and have a deep conversation while cuddling under your sleeping bag and eating your dougnuts... you get the idea..
here is what I usually do,
I tell the girl that we are watching a movie and I take my laptop and get a movie and take her to one of the above mentioned places. I normally take chicks to a nearby stadium which is really nice at night with lights off. There I take my sleeping bags and put in the movie and we watch it. Since my battery lasts only about 30 mins, we normally don't get to finish watching it. But that's not the point. The point is to show that you are different from others. Then I start talking about different things and build attraction and comfort. Now tell me, how many girls expect a guy to take them somewhere like that?