i got back with my girl last week who i was with for 2 years. we brok up last may and i got into pua then. bare in mind i want this to work out this time because she is a HB10 and great fun. i told her i slept with two other girls and she told me about the guy she was with. but i didnt tell her who 1 of the girls was. and she is a girl who was leaving comments on my myspace pics and makin my girl jealous. my girl wrote to her the other day telling her off. but now she txt me today saying ''im going for beers with 'the girl i slept with'' soon she seems nice. now heres my question guys. from your own experience should i tell her i slept with her and try work it out or let her find out off the girl???.

i dont wanna mess things up and i dont want to make her jealous we have a big history and want to know is it the right thing to do? tell her i slept with that girl?

any help would be great im really lost on this one.

if you guys were separated at the time, it honestly is none of her business at this point in your relationship. you two are just getting back together. Of course there might be a little jealousy at first....but an extreme reaction shouldn't happen. At least I don't see why it would.

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i suppose your right there bro. but she has a MAJOR bitch shield and i will get grilled for telling her lol. but the more i progress at pickup the easier it gets to move on after a relationship. cheers man.

you guys here make things so much easier for use new guys thanks for posting all your great advice.

Yeah, unless you're in a monogamous relationship, who you sleep with is your business... "It's personal, I'm not a kiss and tell kind of guy". If it was me I wouldn't even have told her about there being other girls at all.. I would have just have ignored her question or joked about it ("yeah, of course I slept with like a zillion girls every day.. I mean, look at these abs!" ).. and if she had repeated it I would have negged her and teased her about it. "Aren't you miss Insecure?"

If she does find out just tell her it's none of her business, and that's why you didn't tell her. You don't wanna know any details about HER sexual adventures either, right? I know I wouldn't at least.

yea i wouldnt your right. ah fuck it in there are millions of girls out there lol. i dont think i'll tell her. relationships are very tricky i found out. we just gotta keep progressing and become a mPUA