a couple of weeks earlier i went out with a girl and after a couple of drink we started to kiss each other, we spend a really nice time i think.. later she went to meet some friend to a party and i went to a nother party so we split... we exchange som txt messaging during the week, and i set up another date with her.. was yerterday... wen i called her i said to her that i have everything planned so dont wory...

wen we met she kiss me in the chick, not int the lips that's ok we are not a couple but the girl started to play a little hard to get. because we dont't kiss each other in the entire night, i went for the kiss but she respond with a no in a funny way... i don't know what i miss.. or waht would be the best actitude to have.. later we went to a local disco and she met with some friends of her.. we danced a little but i decided to leave... not angry but a little upset... was stupid i know, but im thnking delete her number.

don't delete her number. i think you can still work this.

my guess is that you are heading towards LJBF land. there is a lot of literature out there for how to combat this. i think she is comfortable with you, but you might have sacrificed her attraction for you by doing some afc things. make sure you continue DHVing, and qualifying her a lil here and there. at this stage you never want her to think she already has you. make it seem like you have other girls that you can be with, and YOU are giving HER a chance to hang out with you.

also it is very important that you kino escalate on day 2/3/4 etc. if you don't escalate kino and randomly go for a kiss, you will most likely get this type of reaction. try touching her and holding her a lil more when appropriate.