Sup all,

Im 23, i've had f*** buddies before, and slept with around 20 woman.

However, I have never had a girlfriend - I mean never even more than two dates - sometimes this has been my own fault, i've got scared and found faults, other times its been mutual, or on their part.

I could have had gfs, I really could, I just got picky, and worried what others would think about them.

But, really, im a nice guy, I can be dominant among other guys but not the Alpha in all situations and at the same time I've always come across a little 'cute' to girls - either by the fact that crazy, often unfortunate things happen to me which make good stories (where I come across dopey or unlucky), and that I'm not afraid to talk and come across as a joker at times to.

The reason for the last paragraph is to give an idea of my personality when I ask the question:

Although, I would consider myself 'cool' and confident, although some aspects of my personality prohibit me from coming across as a James Bond type guy:

How do you think women initially would react to this? How would they judge me? Either when finding out in a social situation? during a pick up? or perhaps on a first/second date or getting to know me?

The fact that I have never been in a relationship, and don't swan about like some womanizer that I must be some kind of loser? or have something wrong with me?

It almost puts me off genuinely trying for chicks my own age, as I feel inferior in life experience, what 21-24 year old would want a guy who has never had a girlfriend?

Some opinions would be great guys.

Thanks in advance

Well i am confident all the time and i come across as gay because i am always happy and all the girls love me and no one knows why.

You obviously have natural confidence but you might come off as pretending to be someone your not. So tone down a bit on the confidence and post what happens

i find you post confusing,
if he's naturally confident why should he tone down on it to appear more natural..never mind the fact that confidence is a huge plus as long as arrogance doesnt seep in

Thanks Abdul,

But what im really asking is what women will think of this when finding out? Suppose some advice from you guys on how I should come across/what type of angle, when telling girls would be helpful also

Sorry Falcone i misunderstand you.
They probably won't care as long as you appear fine with the fact that you have never had a girlfriend they won't care as well.

It becomes their problem when it's your problem

Don't tell them that you have never had a GF. Girls will hear this thinking that you probably don't want a LTR.

When the subject does eventually come up (and it will) tell her something along the lines of that you really do want a real GF (looking at her like you want it to be her) I mean I am a pick up noob to be frank. But I have been in a 3 year relationship so I feel I know what girls want to hear.