Ok, so...

This is about a girl. My ex-MLTR, we have had a very passionate and nice relationship for a long time and then she went back to her BF. Then it started to look as if we were getting back together...
Now she has had some problems and since we are already in deeeeep comfort I called her to give her some talking to (and build stronger connection). She refused to answer the phone. She texts me all the time but do not want to speak. I dont get it. If she was trying to get away she would not text me.

So today I sent her the message that I know that she is feeling bad and need help but that she needs to let me. And that I called her to make her feel better and just get shit in return. Then I told her that when she is prepared to treat me nice again she is welcome back in my life.

She freaked out. Was this too strong?

The question you have to ask yourself is weather or not this particular girl is worth the trouble. If not then I would just leave it at that. When she wants to treat you nice again, then start talking to her again.
On the other hand, if she is worth the trouble, I would at least ask her why she doesnt want to talk on the phone. Maybe the mic on her cell phone is broken? You wont know unless you ask. I used to hate talking on the phone, it was a huge sticking point for me, so maybe she has the same problem?
I personaly dont think it was too strong. As a high value man you dont have time to be playing her little game. I assume you told her in a nice tone of voice with no negative connotations. If thats the case then her freeking out is her problem not yours.

she sounds playa ezo. why waste your time with someone who wont even treat you right??
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Thanks guys. Well she is the little spoiled princess I guess. She is a HB9.

By the way, it seemed to work just fine. And I got a text message from her (apologizing) some days ago while I was out walking with another girl. Perfect jealousy plotline.