I'm a newcomer to the PUA world but have been interested for some time in the psychologies and techniques used to PU women. I'm a good looking chap so no probs there, its all about my conversational game. I've realised my game needs some serious work after having read some of these posts.

I met a HB9 at a nightclub and she actually opened me on the dancefloor, i'm a good dancer so that bit was easy. We chatted for a bit as i pointed my body/feet away from her to make it look as though i could leave any moment. She asked me to come outside with her for a cigarette so i agreed as it meant i could maybe * close or number close. In the end i did both.

I got this message in the morning "Hey!how are we this fine morn?"

I didnt reply for 2 days, i called her up and went through to answer phone(always prefer talking not texting) didnt leave a msg. later i receive a txt:

"hey dude, sorry missed ure call, how u doin?u have a good party on sat?

i called about two hours later and arranged a date for the next day.At this point all was good, she sounded happy to speak to me and enthusiastic about meeting. Called her the next day to arrange meeting spot, no answer, i received this text about 2 hours later:

"Hey, so sorry i got about 2hrs sleep last nite so i've just had a bit of a power nap! 4got my mates coming up tnite anyway, u free thursday at all?"

I wasnt free until the friday so said i would meet her then, again i've deleted the message. Then i got a txt on friday from her saying:

"I have been seeing someone for a while but its just got more serious, so i dont think its a good idea to meet up"

I replied.

" Thanks for being honest with me. Its a shame because i thought we had a spark between us. Let me know if the situation changes"

I was obviously pissed off but didnt want to burn my bridges so settled for this response.

2 weeks go by, and on friday night about 11pm i received this:

"I'm probs too late but how do you feel about that drink?x"

I was out with some friends in another city at the time but got back to see my phone with the message on, and in my drunken state mistakenly i replied at about 3.30am.

"`Hey! just been out in liverpool. left my phone at a mates. What you been up to tonight love? I dont get back til tuesday but that would be cool x"

I realised when i woke on saturday i had replied to her and read what i'd sent with a cringe. I sounded so wet. I've still had no reply and obviously now its tuesday.

Any tips on how i can get this back on track? I know i've got a lot of work to do.

stop texting so much, get a life. texting all the time and replying right after every text makes you seem like you have nothing better to do.

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Cheers for the advice, its all good i F closed her a week ago. NEXT haha!