The other day I went to this girls house party, near the end of the party I ask her to dance and while we're dancing she asks me "so what do you think of my party?" i said "Ummm id give it like a 7... " then she says "hey your supposed to be kissing up to me!" and i reply "hey i dont kiss up to anyone..." then she lets me go takes a step back and crosses her arms...

if im not mistaken i think my shit test detector went off at this point... what would have been a good way to handle a freeze out like that when dancing? ive had it happen a few times already

what i did was reply with "thats just my personal policy..." she didnt say anything then i grabed her and started dancing with her again. Was that needy?

she wouldnt have of stepped back had you of phrased this differently: you were actually negging her - which is fine - just try and make it more C&F
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erm - the pulling her back to dance with you - i dont think what you done seemed needy although a tad afc. just by pulling her back to you. you should have of returned the freeze and walked off SLOWLYto get a drink - and say - well thats just made this party a 6. if she doesnt pull you back then dance with someone else. either way later in the night she will ''kiss up to you''
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You actually played that pretty nice bro, she still danced with you right, mission accomplished

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agreed. however now she has the control. she is the dominant one. surely its better to have her chase you?
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kiss up to you?? i charge for that boyfriend (boyfriend??? i dont get it)

walked off SLOWLYto get a drink - and say - well thats just made this party a 6. if she doesnt pull you back then dance with someone else. (that is GENIOUS!!! lol now i got a better idea how to react next time) thanks bro