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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 5:41 am 
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I had an acquaintance who I would describe as "creepy". He was about 6' 15 and 110 pounds. When he wore a hoody he looked like a child molester. I swear to god, he even did an impression of one. It was hilarious as hell, but really FUCKING CREEPY!!

So I think you can be physically creepy... maybe you have long hair and 5" finger nails and bug eyes. Maybe you're 60 and hitting on 18 year olds.

You can also be overly agressive (esp. sexually). Depends on your game. Some people can K-close in 1 min without being creepy. Some people can't.


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Okay, this is an issue that's a MAJOR sticking point for a lot of guys, and I haven't seen a thread on it, so here goes:

1. What do you do if people say you come across as creepy?

2. What is "creepy" behavior? It's pretty easy to spot "needy" behavior - supplication, too many compliments, offering free drinks, etc. But I notice girls call a LOT of stuff "creepy" that doesn't even look that unusual.

I mean, sure following her is creepy. But what about other things, like your approach, or with online sarging? Or in rapport? Is escalating too fast considered creepy?


3. Plus, what's the best thing to say if she call you creepy as a shit-test? I mean, I don't know ANY good answers to that one.
creepy or not creepy? how do you define it? look at your yan. the energy you give out. you need confidence. humor. to be well groomed. and you need a good energy - a smile. and you need to connect with people. all this is AMOG. stay alpha.
dont pay her much attention. shut off your body language away from her. if your walking with her - dont look at her for more than a second every five seconds or so. stand up tall. if she compliments you - dont get caught up in it. just say - respect.
IF she calls you creepy - the main problem is it kicks your amog value in the face. not good. punish her - AFTER you have taken care of the neg SHE just gave you by calling you a creep. personally - id do a mock greasy slimeball creep impression. look at em and do a cheesy grin - raise your eyebrows up and down quickly twice and go uhmmmmm :P. its gonna make her laugh. by mocking the thing that is causing the tension for her(the creep) your making her think about the frame of it. shes going to laugh - and youll raise your amog points while dhvin.
Now. you neg the cunt. shotgun neg multiple times.
shit test? if she calls you a creep when your alone say - so why am i being backed into a corner? (hopefully you know about getting yourself into the corner so shes gaming you - it doesnt even have to be a corner) i feel like im trapped. give me some room i feel stalked.
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[quote][b]A REPLY TO HOT ICE. CONCERNIG A COMMENT TO WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT MY COMMENT.!![/b][/quote]
oh my god. bruv your talkin about wasting your time with what I am writing. from the looks of it you have a lot of time on your hands. because you actuly sat there and wrote all that bullshit on how oyu know a lot of ppl and how you've got a life and so on. and yet managed to call me "childish" because my response was negative. ok i admit it was negative but you sat there like an ediot and decided to critisize every single word I said because as you claimed "i dont know what I am talkin about." listen I dont have time to argue with you but here is a newsflash for you;- IT AINT WHAT YOU SAY TO A GURL that triggers her creep radar or makes her interested IT IS HOW YOU SAY IT. and to tell you the truth I have used that line many times and i have never come across as a creep an afc or anything you want to refer to it as. Another thing since you have an ambition to be an author of the game sometime in the future you are expected to know simple ideas as such. Another thing I want to say to you is, if your gonna reply to me don't make it an opportunity to couterproduct the mistakes i have made with my grammar or anything like that. we know.. we know... you go university! congratulations I dont care about your life story and how you got A for english or whatever. You'r simply a paranoid guy because you felt the need to justify yourself on how this guy your talking about isn't you and gave the same answer for more than ten times.. If it isn't you again congratulations and i apologise for assuming it was you. how stupid of me. if it makes you feel better I have asked some questions on how we could improve our college game in a different place jus look through my name and find it. I assume again something i shouldnt do but I assume you have a lot of time on your hands so you can find my question and critisize my it. or you can simply be a "generous and knowledgable ladies man" as well be a bit wait a lot more maturer and give us some tips. is dat cool? yeh ?
gud. nice communicating with you. your a very smat guy and I am not trying to manipulate you or anything. before you start reading into it.


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It's pretty simple "creepy"= blown out, so just eject after that. Probably not being saved

You probably weren't smiling enough, or as I saw in another reply, had poor body language. As someone who got into the game because of this very piercing comment, I can tell you I haven't heard it since I worked on inner game extensively. It's a confidence issue. If you are in control, she won't even think the word "creep" let alone say it.

I haven't changed my personality or what I say for the most part, It's how I say it. You are the one who is in charge, and you are the nicest most fun guy they are going to meet that night. You have to believe that to get them to.

Should this situation occur again, flip the script on her. Say: "Everyone's a little creepy sometimes"- (while smiling of course) "I'm sure you have your moments, but I'll forgive you in advance." That should at least let you get out of there with some dignity.

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It's pretty simple "creepy"= blown out, so just eject after that. Probably not being saved

You probably weren't smiling enough, or as I saw in another reply, had poor body language. As someone who got into the game because of this very piercing comment, I can tell you I haven't heard it since I worked on inner game extensively. It's a confidence issue. If you are in control, she won't even think the word "creep" let alone say it.

I haven't changed my personality or what I say for the most part, It's how I say it. You are the one who is in charge, and you are the nicest most fun guy they are going to meet that night. You have to believe that to get them to.

Should this situation occur again, flip the script on her. Say: "Everyone's a little creepy sometimes"- (while smiling of course) "I'm sure you have your moments, but I'll forgive you in advance." That should at least let you get out of there with some dignity.
That's a very good idea bro. I'll tell my friends to use it. Ironically I got into the game for that same reason. My inner game is good most of the time, I have not been called creepy since getting into the game (though one HB called one of my DHV stories creepy as a joke... I teased her back. And if it even happens to me I'll figure it's a shit-test). However some of my friends have huge issues with inner game.

I've seen them in action a few more times and I think I have their problem figured out. They are SO NEEDY despite being in frats and having so many friends, that it looks creepy. They're all cool around their male and female friends, but watch them go up to a girl they LIKE, they get all nervous, and the girls think: "why is he so desperate to meet ME? when he's so popular?" In reality the problem is that AFC's will look at EVERY girl they meet as "I MUST have her, she is the one!" even if they are in a frat and know lots of girls. But when you have a social circle that big, and you're still being a needy AFC, it looks like you're just trying to manipulate them.

"Creepy" is the result of a bad approach, desperation, etc. But anger or serious looks (i.e. not smiling) could also cause this reaction (those guys have a REALLY hard time smiling).


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[quote][b]A REPLY TO HOT ICE. CONCERNIG A COMMENT TO WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT MY COMMENT.!![/b][/quote]
oh my god. bruv your talkin about wasting your time with what I am writing. from the looks of it you have a lot of time on your hands. because you actuly sat there and wrote all that bullshit on how oyu know a lot of ppl and how you've got a life and so on. and yet managed to call me "childish" because my response was negative. ok i admit it was negative but you sat there like an ediot and decided to critisize every single word I said because as you claimed "i dont know what I am talkin about." listen I dont have time to argue with you but here is a newsflash for you;- IT AINT WHAT YOU SAY TO A GURL that triggers her creep radar or makes her interested IT IS HOW YOU SAY IT. and to tell you the truth I have used that line many times and i have never come across as a creep an afc or anything you want to refer to it as. Another thing since you have an ambition to be an author of the game sometime in the future you are expected to know simple ideas as such. Another thing I want to say to you is, if your gonna reply to me don't make it an opportunity to couterproduct the mistakes i have made with my grammar or anything like that. we know.. we know... you go university! congratulations I dont care about your life story and how you got A for english or whatever. You'r simply a paranoid guy because you felt the need to justify yourself on how this guy your talking about isn't you and gave the same answer for more than ten times.. If it isn't you again congratulations and i apologise for assuming it was you. how stupid of me. if it makes you feel better I have asked some questions on how we could improve our college game in a different place jus look through my name and find it. I assume again something i shouldnt do but I assume you have a lot of time on your hands so you can find my question and critisize my it. or you can simply be a "generous and knowledgable ladies man" as well be a bit wait a lot more maturer and give us some tips. is dat cool? yeh ?
gud. nice communicating with you. your a very smat guy and I am not trying to manipulate you or anything. before you start reading into it.
Paragraphs? You probably should have gone to spelling lessons as well. :roll:

Anyways to the OP:

If a girl says someone is creepy in a shit test situ, it'll probably be easier to deflect the comment directly and in a joking manner tell her she looks pretty creepy herself ..'hey we can be creepy together etc etc'

Just deflect the comment and laugh about it.


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WE KNOW WE KNOW YOU GOT A* FOR YOUR ENGLISH GCSE'S AND AN A FOR ENGLISH A LEVELS. ITS ALSO GUD TO C YOUR COMING UP IN THE WORLD AND ANSWERING YOUR OWN QUESTIONS TO M.

THANKS. I WILL GO TO SPELLING LESSONS. IT'S VITAL THAT I LISTEN TO SUCH AN EDUCATED AND SOHISTICATED GUY WHO KNOWS HOW TO SPELL

BY THE WAY YOUR NICK NAME WOOOW GREAT. HOT ICE HOW CONTRIDICTING AND YET BRILIANT. LADIES DIG NICK NAMES LIKE THAT


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WE KNOW WE KNOW YOU GOT A* FOR YOUR ENGLISH GCSE'S AND AN A FOR ENGLISH A LEVELS. ITS ALSO GUD TO C YOUR COMING UP IN THE WORLD AND ANSWERING YOUR OWN QUESTIONS TO M.

THANKS. I WILL GO TO SPELLING LESSONS. IT'S VITAL THAT I LISTEN TO SUCH AN EDUCATED AND SOHISTICATED GUY WHO KNOWS HOW TO SPELL

BY THE WAY YOUR NICK NAME WOOOW GREAT. HOT ICE HOW CONTRIDICTING AND YET BRILIANT. LADIES DIG NICK NAMES LIKE THAT
Seriously? :? :roll:


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Seriously? :? :roll:
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ha ha ha. ur a funny guy. am gona be the idiot n answer the question seriously even tho i think ur bn sarcastic.

no not seriously!


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She is testing how reactive you are.

Just Say "Thanks for the compliment" and smile.


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She is testing how reactive you are.

Just Say "Thanks for the compliment" and smile.
Lol. I bet after the eight years since this thread was created, the OP is finally glad to get this response and finally resolve this sticking point.

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I often go to the same coffee shops where I live and I noticed a lot of the same women frequent these places too.

My question is if say you are having a bad day and not smiling, come off "creepy" to a certain woman or group of women but then say on a different occasion,you are feeling more positive and you full of confidence and smiling...if these same women see you again, what then?

Would the women most likely think wow that guy was creepy before but now he isn't or would they most likely be closed minded and just think oh it is the creepy guy from before? What have your experiences been with women in situations like this?

Women seem incapable of understanding the possibility of multiple outcomes based on a man's level of confidence and how he manages that when encountering a woman.

To illustrate, if you flirt with most women and they are not into you because you are not confident enough, they will always deny that this was the reason they rejected you. I know this because I have tested it out countless times. I will tell the woman that there was a possibility I could have seduced them into having sex with me but I wasn't on my game that day and they will always say that they we're never into me from the beginning. That is obviously bullshit because they agreed to go out with me late at night and they agreed to make out and sometimes even give me oral sex. If you are not confident,women will always lie to you.


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