| First Post, kinda a long one. I'll be introducing myself later, but something happened tonight that I'd like to get feedback on.
A week ago I had one of those Game nights where everything just went almost right, kinda.
Problem was we were flirting around so nicely, I sort of fell in love and went into what I call 'natural Game mode', that by the time I left her place, I never even bothered for a ph# (see also; Hanzo's drinking problem). We didn't have sex, though I could've. But I had potential business associates with me and long story short, I had to behave (one of the associates is bff with target, and getting me a production deal, and knows I'm in a relationship...).
Very next night, we run into each other again - sparks fly, but she's on her last leg of a day-long pub crawl and I have to piss so bad... By the time I get out of the can, her bitchy friends have dragged her home.
Boo Hoo
Salvations: A day later she pops up on the facebook and I send her a message saying I'm taking her out for sushi at this place she's never been too.
For a week, no response. Some vague recollection of her saying she never checks her FB keeps me alive, but honestly, who am I kidding right!
My 'date night' comes and goes, of course, because messaging a girl for a date online is probably too lame - or I don't know the tricks -
I tried to compensate for my lack of ph# by 'telling' her I was taking her out, rather than asking her like a douche. But I'm 28 and my internet dating etiquette is likely outdated or missing altogether.
Fast-forward to today, tonight actually. 1:30 a.m. I get a txt from the bff telling me it's target's 21st birthday and I should call her to say happy birthday. Insinuation being if I call the bff now, I can talk to the target.
At that time I was, and still am, indisposed with another lady friend wrapped around me in bed. If she only knew what was being typed beside her ; )
But I got tone on the B-day girl, and once I'm locked in, it seems like a good enough challenge to bounce back into.
I felt that running into the bathroom and txting the bff to relay messages to the target, or immediately calling the bff to speak with the target would be not good, so I resisted those urges and figured more qualified people may be able to help me lure this disjointed pickup into the boat.
My inclination is to 'punish' her for not responding to my facebook email date, and reinitiating the Game whenever I happen to bump into her again (it's a small college town after-all, and I hang out professionally with her bff anyways).
But is there some daring, awesome trick I can pull, to preferably make her cry and then fall in love with me - but not too much, and make the love explosions maybe two or three times a week?
Like:
"When you're passive aggressive with me, your nose wrinkles up and looks so cute".
Thanks for having this site btw, I hope to hang with you all a little more in the coming months.
Hanzo
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