After browsing this site for a short time, I already feel comfortable posting. I'm a 21 year old college senior, at a major party school in the midwest. I usually go out Thursday, Friday, and Saturday night with my friends to college bars.

(I apologize if my acronyms aren't up to par, as I'm working on studying them while we speak, so I can start feeling more of a part of this community.)

Last Friday, I was approached this HB at a college bar, and was speaking to her about her life for awhile. End's up the HB is a transfered this semester, and I am really good friends with one of the girls at her former school. Ends up she takes my phone and she starts to text her friend from my phone.

We continue talking for awhile, perhaps about 10-15 minutes longer, don't really recall the entire conversation, but nothing too sexually. The only question that I really recall asking her that wasn't specifically about her life, was the main different between the men here compared to the men at her other school.

As the conversation ended with her saying that she has to go, I was not really sure to what to expect.

Tonight around 12:30 the HB sent me the following message:

HB text: "Do I rly look like a girls that's a slut? U can be honest
Me: Let's bang
Me: To Be honest, from the brief conversation we had, you didn't seem slutty at all
(30 minutes later)
HB: Thanks
Me: Np
Me: I didn't see you tonight but if you want to come over now I can tell you if you look slutty

What do you think the HB's implications where when the texted me to ask me if I thought she was a slut? I didn't mention anything to her about being a slut before...Why would she be concerned of my opinion of her?

I tried to be C+F by saying "Let's Bang", but as I wasn't quite sure if I sure if she liked that approach as she waited 30 minutes before replying. How would you have replied to such a text message?

Since I know that I am probably going to see the girl in the next couple of days seeing that we live 2 blocks from each other, and we go to the same bars apparently, should I approach her, and try to start a conversation, or wait for her to come to me? If I should approach her, should I bring up this conversation or act as if it never happened?

Thanks for the advice.

yeah my advice to u is u shouldn't have went wit the CF line of LEt's Bang... it almost seems like a shit test she was giving u, and u sorta kinda failed but u cleaned it up with the to be honest part...I'm not really sure much more advice to give u because I would need to know what was said in the conversation u should have negged her and been like : O actually from the way u dressed I'm glad u gave up your fashion for comfort or hey I seen alot of people with that dress(or wat ever she had on) tonight...u know what i mean somewhere along the lines of that

o and if u wanted her to come over u shouldv'e bounced her when u were at the bar...or u couldv'e texted I'm by myself and scared my mommie left me could u come and comfort me or be a bit more ambiguous

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