Superconference 2008 Review

Had an awesome time at the Superconference, and thought I'd give a recap for those who couldn't be there. My brain is still on overload as Im trying to sort out all the knowledge that was handed down by the Love Systems instructors.

They had a really cool format where you could basically choose your own schedule. The upstairs auditorium was dedicated to seminars, which was one speaker after another with 3 breaks throughout the day. Each speaker would discuss a different topic (ie Approach Anxiety. Routines, Day Game, Qualification, 10 Min. lays, Female Psych, etc...)

The side room and downstairs room were dedicated to group exercises, where the instructors would go over a certain aspect of game, and then coach you on it and give you instant feedback (teasing and bantering, storytelling, frame control, etc).

I decided to spend most of my time in the exercise rooms (like I said you had the choice of either being in there or upstairs hearing the seminars) because I loved the personalized attention from the coaches and felt I'd get the most out of my time there.

After an introductory speech from Savoy, I went with some of the guys in the crew to the exercise room...

Cajun: Body Language

He discussed the importance of locking in, and getting into a comfortable position. He gave a great example of locking in at a club in a way where the girl is facing you as you lean against the wall, as to divert her attention from potential distractions in the club.

He went over crucial mistakes guys make like hands in pockets, slouching and poor presentation. Make the gestures slow and drawn out; deliberate. Every movement should have a reason.

We did some exercises with the coaches and I learned alot about how to best maximize working with what I have.

Tenmagnet: StoryTelling

He stressed the need for being a character in your story; playing the foil and the hero. Someone compelling that you wanna root for. It's ok to be foolish sometimes, and stories about mistaken identity are gold. It's also key to imply certain things about yourself, leaving her to fill in the gaps.

He asked if anyone wanted to tell a story for the class, and I decided to speak up and tell one. I talked about a time up in Washington when I was working at a candy store and saved my pot smoking friends from a deranged tatooed gangbanger with a case of gangreene looming...I got an awesome response from the crowd, and the instructors thought it was well told except:

-I went too long with it.

-Told some unessesary details

-Needed to throw in more of the 5 senses for relation maximization.

Routines

Routines were disected and examined. We built our own routine stacks, and learned the following:

-Must appeal to the emotions and mind
-Must pump state throughout and build intrigue
-If things get too logical, go straight to state based material.

We built routine cheat sheets, based on the following:

-2 openers for direct, indirect and situational approaches.
-2 state based routines
-Learn 5 things you want in a girl (non-physical)
-Learn 5 things you DONT want in a girl.
-Find out if she has the qualities you're ideally looking for

While in your set and running routines, a good way to check to see if you have attraction is by squeezing her hand and see if you get a squeeze response back.

We learned about State Based routines, such as role playing. stripper name game, mouse race, and other awesome little state pumpers.

Comfort and Intrigue based routines were examined, including cold reads with justifications thrown in for good measure.

Bantering-Teasing-Disqualification

This one was one of my favorites. The instructors went over watching out for trigger words which can be used to splinter the conversation in different directions. Misinterpretaion, and over exageration methods were discussed, along with a group exercise.

Instructor Kisser would give us a line pretending he was the girl, and we'd have to follow it up. He said he was from Russia, and I had a few comebacks for that including admiration for Gorbechev's birthmark, the musical stylings of WWF superstar Nicoli Volkoff, the Russian arms-crossed-on-chest dance, and the availability of bread without waiting in line back at my apartment.

We learned to look out for "constant words", which you find repeated allowing you to draw something out of it. You must give her stuff to draw out from you as well.

AMOG's/Shit Tests

Key points:

1. Be friendly to them
2. Ignore them if they are dicks; act as if they dont exist.
3. Kill with kindness. Make them appear to be the reative one. The first person to appear intimidated loses.

Always try to diffuse the situation if it gets viloent by being friendly. No vilonce is ever worth it, sometimes best to know when to pick your battles and walk away. No shame in that.

Take shit tests as IOI's...she wouldnt even be bothering with you if she wasnt at least interested. Take her negs as a compliment.

Classy comebacks were thrown out, and reframing conversations.

I did spend some time towards the end of the 3 days in the seminar room where I caught probably one of the best talks I ever heard...Savoy on Female Pyschology.

He went over her thought processes, and what types of justifications she needs to make in order to follow her groups norms and standards of behavior. Ive been to alot of seminars, but this speech in particular had me intrigued. It helped answer alot of things I had been questioning from my past with relations of yesteryear.

Brad P went over getting 10 Minute Lays, and like all BradP speeches, this one was full of information that just wanted to make you get out of your seat and do a bathroom pull. Truly inspirational stuff.

Speer went over his model of attraction, and came off like a true pro. he is very knowledgable about his job, and you can tell he loves every thing about it. I had the chance to speak with him outside and had a smoke; very approachable and down to earth guy. I know a few people who have taken his bootcamps and have ended up with some amazing results.

Braddock was also awesome. He has a way of breaking everything down in a way which becomes relatable no matter at what level in your game you might think youre at. I remcommend you guys check out the MM Interview Series where he and Mr M discuss 9-10 Game. Looking forward to his lair talk with the Los Angeles Orange county Lair in December.

I also wanted to give props to Sinn, Moxie, 5 and especially Big Business who was a major help to me and really had me fine tune my approach to the subtlest nuance.

Again, I had a great time and recommend everyone check it out next year.

-J The Ripper