alright fellas heres my situation. this girl i know had just broken up with her bf one of my friends ( he did the braking actually) and like a week later i went on this beach trip with my friends and she went. (ex wasn't there) we talked and had fun and ended up making ou that night. this was before i foundout about all this pua suff. i drove her away by being needy and stuff after that. i can clearly see thats what i did looking back on it. then like a couple of days later i told her i liked her. ( ahhh eff!!) i know horrible desision. still didn't know at the time. she said she liked me but wasn't ready for a bf. we talk and stuff now i use cocky funny and can get a date an stuff but i need some advice on what i should do next.... or is it already a lost cause?

instead of taking her out on "a date" tell her to come over, and say something like "Dress casual,"I'll only be able to hang out for an
hour or two."

this gets rid of any date like tension when you two are together so you can be your selfs more. and just do some fun shit with her, say, if she like excersize go for a jog or a bike ride with her, or if she likes art, tell her you are going to be at the art gallery looking at this cool new exhibit for a few hours and that she should come out

p.s. you dont have to get her to come over to your house, you can tell her to come hangout at a certain place, just make sure you arent spending money on her, because if you do, then it shows that theres something you "want" from her.


and something one of my friends taught me, is that if a girl dosnt agree to meet you some where, simply and noncholantly say "okay" and try to wait untill she starts a new conversation before you invite her to hang out with you again.


Once you two are hanging out in this situation, just have fun, tease n flirt alot, and throw in some kino.

If all goes well she will be the one chasing YOU