Hey guys, finished the opener, Arranged to meet for a game of something at the lookout, the weather killed it, and now im just gonna tell her ill meet her for coffee. The thing is, do i call or text it to her? and if so how do i say it without sounding like i care if she dosent come... cheers guys

Call, don't text.

are you seriously going to ask that???
why dont you ask her:
pua: why dont YOU meet ME for SOMETHING apart from COFFEE??
(if she asks why not coffee say that your highly respected in coffee shops across the world as a coffee taster and you dont want her to embarrass you).(thats pretty neat actually lol).
why ask if YOU can meet HER?? it should be the other way around bro. the fact that your crossing out something the date that most guys would ask her on would make your frame stronger.
V1V

Call as said above and don't ask, tell her

"look the weather sucks but I'm going to blah so you can tag along"

and don't take her to dinner or coffee that's lame don't make her an event. have her meet you some were that you already had planed or make it look that way at least


for example if you go to a laundromat to do your laundry, and had plans to do so that day that's a good place to have her come she should want to see you for you not for the event. Tough doing some thing a bit more interesting won't hurt..


the normal guy does things to impress her, but you know your company is enough and it doesn't need to be sugarcoated or sold to her


If you make it sound like your already had plans to do w/e your doing then it wont sound as if you care.