whats the best way to handle these two? stand up straight and look them in the eye? im not sure im guessing this is an easy question to answer tho

Posture: Make yourself as tall and wide as possible. This means standing up straight and keeping your chin up, as well as shoulders back. Do not lean in to sets, and when initiating a chat it is best to stand sideways, leaning back, as if you are about to leave. When sitting, take up space. Lean far back, legs spread, arms spread. At all times look content and happy, beaming a smile. Be non-reactive, resist urges to turn quickly or poke your head around looking for something.

Eye contact: Always smile when making it. Never break it first. Do not turn head quickly. If you are alone and not in set, approach girl immediately after making it.

thanks for the help but when i puff out my chest it looks weird... and sort of gives me man boobs even tho im not fat i do have a little bit of fat there

do u think i should puff out anyway of does the whole man boob thing over way it?

Ha, I don't know. IMO you should puff it out anyways, maybe wear a blazer or something?