Stagg, Monkey's expertise with women is only exceeded by his humility.
Ok, let's see where to start..
You want to get better with women. That's simple.
Hang out with more women, read more stuff from people with experience like Monkey, etc... And practice, practice, practice.
And remember, there is no such thing as rejection.. There is only bad timing, or a bad approach.
Picking up women is alot like fishing. The more time you spend with your lure in the water, the better chance you got of catching a whopper, and the more experience you'll gain.