Simple question: how can I get a girl to bounce from the dance floor after I have been dancing for a while. It is hard for me to build sufficient comfort on a loud dance floor. I've tried going direct asking her and it hasnt worked yet.

Im a strong believer that your dancing is stronger than anything you can say in such a situation. As your post says, its loud and hard to build comfort through words. Show her through your dancing that you are someone who does not push things but instead goes about it in a respectful way. I usually do this by linking hands with the girl while im dancing(usually after a good amount of time) and begin to work my hands down the front of her towards her sensitive area. If shes into you and feels comfortable she'll let you keep headin down. If not then shes in control and will just bring them up a little bit, not a huge deal. Based on how the dancing connection feels, decide whether you should try to move it away from the floor.

Whats worked for me to get them off the floor: Say that you have something important to tell her and lead her by the hand away from the dance floor to a more quiet area where you can talk. Tell her that you need a break and that she should come get a drink with you. Where you take it once you get there im not very good at giving advice on.

Hope this helps

Ask her to go out for a smoke or use the classic " you are beautiful but, beauty is common what really matters a great personality and outlook" then say why we dont go somewhere a little more quiet to talk? you can even ask her to go with you to the bar for a drink. be creative Karma the possibilities are endless

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Simple answer for simple question;
Load dance music floor make you distracted, what your focus become manipulated by the loud speaker,now,try something else, try to be eye catcher, speak with your style, dance with your soul and so that you are attractive,not easy though,it just need confident with your own style without speaking loudly,

simple advice right,

eh . . . alpha. . .

not trying to be mean or anything but i would brush up on your english a little bit before posting again. really hard to follow what you are saying.

Thank you bellarado.I`ll fix it up ,

Hi Karma, this is my first ever post on this site, I only found it tonight so I am very new to this. However I am not new to the concepts being shared and taught by the users on here.

I believe I have a simple answer to your question...
The concept is based on mirroring her body language pattern and moving in a certain way... please note when I speak about moving left or right the pattern must be kept, so If you are using opposite sides to me then please remember to make sure everything is opposite.

The way I have got a girl from the dancefloor to the bar or exit is simple,
Firstly you need to mirror her body language while dancing, this doesn't mean copy ever move she does but instead mirror where she is looking, what direction she is moving in, wether she is open or not... etc
Then while dancing you need to have her facing you with your left hand round her waist (it doesn't matter where your other hand is). Then you need to slowly moved your left hand to the small of her back and take one slight step back with your right foot at the same time take a quick glance at where you want her to go. (if you imagine how your stance will be, you will both be standing together but with an opening in the direction you wish to move but still closed as you have your arm round behind her)

As long as you managed to mirror her body language well at the start you should both be in a pattern, your previous movement of taking a step back will make you the leader in this pattern... this will automatically inspire her to feel the need to move without you having to say anything, if it is the bar you wish to take her to then by all means if you have the cash offer to get her a drink on the way there (starts conversation).

If it is the exit or anywhere else you are aiming for then make sure you have a good conversation starter or reason for moving.

Please not as this is my first post to this site, I may have some unconventional or strange views to this technique, these come from my background of face to face sales and years out on the pull. I am by no means an expert at any of this.