I tried doing a search for a situation like this but couldn't find one. Anyway if anyone remembers some of my previous posts i have been talking about how im not sure if im in the friends zone or not. More and more i believe that i am deep into the friends zone. Iv never really had a good female friend so i wouldnt know. anyway she was always kinda flirting and giving me iois. so i was always confused. She would talk to me not a lot but every so often.

anyway we go out to a club.. both get drunk and end up making out on the dance floor. ever since then she hasnt really talked to me as much. I over the past couple days realize that im in the friends zone and would rather keep her as a friends than lose her completely. I will see her in person for the first time since soon. any ways i should react? my buddy talked to her buddy and said my hb felt bad about the kiss cause we are such good friends (can anyone translate to me what this means?)


Anyone else out there made out with a one-itis of yours that your in the friends zone with... and did it change the relationship for the good or worse..... im interested in this kinda topic??

mhh, i think you should go on a "date" with her so you can "explain" the situation to eachother. then you can seduce her, convince her you and her should try together cuz she is the only one you can talk to that way, you have fun, she understands you etc...

(i really don't know if i'm right, im still afc but... guys help us over here, i wanna know what to do in this situation too )

haha sorry if im wrong

well heres my take in the situation.
How was she giving you IOI? A lot of females tend to act really friendly with guys. The friendliness she gives out doesn't automatically mean she likes the guy. From my personal experiences and from what people have told me, guys who have these type of female friends have the tendency to assume the girl has some type of attraction toward him.

The result of making out with a friend varies. Some friendships will go downhill to the point where the friendship they have will feel awkward. In other cases....the girl and guy will pretend nothing had happen and will continue to be good friends. In your situation, if you want to remain good friends with her, you need too be upfront about your feelings the next time you meet up with her. you need too tell her that you only have feelings for her in a friend kind of way and doesn't want their make out session to ruin the friendship they have. In return..HOPEFULLY she'll tell you how she truely feels about you.
STR8 from the source. my bestfriend who i known since i was 12 told me this. She like my experimental mouse lol

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thanks nonstop....

the situation is now is pretty much awkward but maybe its cause im thinking about it too much.. things are different though because she doesnt talk to me as much as she once did before. and honestly the feelings i have for her are way more than friends.. i guess i was just saying i didnt want to lose her as a friendecause i dont want her outta my life. maybe thats the best thing if i dont get with her as more than friends...

If you really deeply do want her:

Remember, only losers settle for crap. You are here to learn how to not be a loser.
Start from this case.

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Real Talk, but yeah, if you want her go for it, she's just a girl. You'll end up regretting it more later on. I've been friends with some nice looking girls but I didn't want to ruin the friendship, and time went on I just started getting more pissed off at myself because I didn't do the right thing.

i hear ya stunna.... what would be the best way to conquer this kind of situation? how would i go about going for it?

Whatever you do, don't freeze her out now. That could just make her think that you don't talk to her because you madeout with her, which might only reinforce your LJBF.

Just playfully game her. It isn't that hard.

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