just got out of a long relationship, wanna get back in the game.... ive known this girl who came to my parties in the past a while back...anyway, ive been chatting with her online through aim and facebook...i asked if shes still at the number ########, she said no, i said give me ur number, she said "hit me up on aim or facebook, im not really a phone person, seriously im not just saying that"...i do believe her because shes kinda shy and unsocial...anyway, how do i get to the next step without getting her phone number?..she gave it to me in the past at one of my parties, but i dont get her..i know she recently broke up with someone, so maybe she wants some alone time?...anyway, any advice would be helpful...by the way, shes an HB 10...hottest girl ever

next step
create a high value situation like having a party or a get together,find out if she can cook and neg the shit out of her cooking, invite her to cook for you at your place, neg the hell out of her in a playful way with things like only if you aren't gonna drink all my beer or something,
so much stuff here to get you started man you'd better let me know how your getting on!

Do you have any mutual friends? Use them as a pivot. Ask them to help you set something up. Have a good time.