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I opened
transitioned
comfort
no kino (screwed up)
number close
Now I need to make another meet. We exchange texts, and we call each other, but when I initiate a meet, she says I will see what I can do. She says its so sweet how I invite her places. Also, she says that I at times remind her of her best guy friend who she had never f-closed with. But at times my tone reminds her of him, and she likes that.
All good, but cuting close to the friend zone, all because I did not kino at first meet.
What can I fix?
what can I work with?
What technology do we have for this sticky point I got?
I need your help
z-mac
Tripp's Vault Member
Alright. No kino. Did you have any sexual tension, frame.. raise her buying temperature????
The equation is the same for LJBF's and for Kick-Ass Relationships (however short they may be.) The element that the latter has that the former does not is physical and mental reminders that you and her are sexual beings. Both the physical AND the MENTAL are vital for a woman.
You have to get her thinking about you in that way. Plant the seed in her head in an innocuous way. That way, it germinates on its own.
This can be done by playing games. The neverending-never-repeating question game is one of my favorites. You ask a question. She answers. Her turn to ask you a question. You answer. The deal is, once you ask a question and have it answered, the question is out of play. You can't ask it again. So if you ask her her favorite color, she says red, that question is out. She can't ask you.
You slowly and smoothly escalate to sexual questions and situations.
You want it to be HER idea to move you from the LJBF zone.
CHAT