I just wanted to know from you guys if these are Iois.I met this girl about two weeks ago and I don't know if she is sending little IoIs or just being funny.First IOI when ever we play beer pong she wants to be my partner.Second if she makes a cup she was like I made that for you or that was for you love.Third IOI she has a pretty big dimond ring and was like if any one askes your my husband she said this last night.Fourth IOI she slept in my bed with me.She bet me if she won a game of beer pong her vs me she would sleep in my bed and I would be out on the couch.She won and told me have fun sleeping out on the couch tonight.Now I don't know if she wanted to hook up with me or what but It's time for bed I go into my room to get some stuff to sleep out on the couch, when she told me I could sleep in the bed with her IOI?

Thanks for your help guys...

SHE SLEPT IN YOUR BED AND YOU DIDN'T EVEN MAKE A MOVE?!

look, next time you get her on your bed or any sort of intimate area where it's just the two of you together, somewhere in the middle of your discussion just ask if she'd like to kiss you. i'm serious. as corny as that sounds, i've used it before with successful results. you've got nothing to lose, go for it!

Yeah I have some Inner Game problems like I don't think I'm good looking.Hench why I did't make a move.She is a cheerleader for our College so she is pretty hott.I have been told I'm cute, hott,good looking,I even have the nick name GQ I quess I dress some what ok.Girls have told me I look like a QG model.So I quess I look ok to girls I just don't think I'm that good looking.It was just weid having her in my bed because she just went to sleep or was pretending she was sleeping I dont know...

that's terrible. you need to get a move on this. think about how much your confidence level will rise just from kissing this girl. how even though you don't find yourself attractive, she still found something in you. come on man, push yourself. unless you try something new and take a risk, you'll never escalate yourself to a higher level as a PUA.

So you think she was sending me IOIs?Being she said I could sleep in my bed with her..

jesus christ, YES SHE'S INTERESTED! DON'T BE CONFUSED ON THIS, SHE WANTS TO SUCK YOUR DICK AND SWALLOW YOUR SPERM. SHE WANTS YOU TO TAKE CONTROL! Caveman this HB and show her that you're the boss.

Ok thanks for the help man.I'll see how it goes this week..

chen is right. she definitly into you. you picked up on the many IoI's but you didnt act on it. knowing your personality you're the nice guy type but you need to turn caveman like chen said and go for it. Remember nice guy Finish last. Have more faith in yourself. I'm no so good in the looks department but hey i walk in the club thinking i'm the hottest guy in this club. Its all a bout your confidense level. You got this on lock i have faith in you. let us know how it goes. This is an chance to open up new doors and adventures for you.

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make a move! She is 100% interested. Okey, 99.999% lol

So she slept in my bed agian Friday yet we really did't do much besides cuddling.Would you guys say this is an IOI?She came over and partyed with me last night and she would always have to be my beer pong partner and the she showed up today for my rugby game with out me even asking her.

this will work if you can land her in your room again. and will set a level for you to be able to feel comfortable because she will either know and act surprised or not know and be surprised. but if you find yourself with her in your room alone again. tell her that you noticed she came to your game, and that you got her something. now tell her to close your eyes and act as you are getting something. in reality you have gotten her nothing. but her eyes are closed and all you have to do is kiss her. this should definitely break the ice between you two. and if you find yourself lacking the confidence to kiss her you can always scramble and give her something of yours.

but like you've read in the other posts she wants you to make a move man. and this is a near flawless way to execute it.

Is this another IOI?She wore my clothes to bed and proceded to wear my stuff when she went back to her house.

Dude stop over analysing... Its on.
Next time she's in ur bed spoon her then start kissing her neck. She will respond...

Update guys.Tell me how I did.So it was Friday Halloween.We had a party at my house and the girl that I have been gaming shows up.We start drinking and party now It's time for bed.I'm going to my room when the girl I have been gaming comes with me and tells me she is going to spend the night.Now I don't know what came over me but we are in my bed and I was like I like to cuddle so we are going to cuddle.We do this for a little bit.I was talking to her about how cool the earing is on the back of the neck and if she has any more.She tells me she has here ears,lip,neck,and down there pierced.She was like do you want to feel the piercing I said yeah so she grabs my hand and sticks it in her pants.And it was on from there we hooked up that night,and she is coming over agian this week.All in all it was a pretty good night for me and I need to learn to just go with it and stop thinking so much..