ANY IDEAS ON WHERE I WENT WRONG
So my "business partner" as she puts it and I went back home from college to our HS's homecoming game. This HB 9 has wanted me ever since I started doing things right. I had been in contact with her via text and she was going to sit by me. I heard she was looking for me and eventually me and my friend ran into her and her friends. Started paying attention to her friends and when I said hi to her she gave me a weak hug so I called her out on it and got a really sexy one. Only exchanged a few words about as grabbing which was something that couldnt b passed up (aka i looked er in the eye and grabbed her ass in public).

Then it goes downhill- she sees an old teacher and they start talking n shit I talk to her other friends who are dumb as rocks the whole time make em laugh n shit whatever. Our parties seperate I dont see her again for the rest of the night and she doesnt text me back(i sent like 1 txt asking if we were gonna make this weekend interesting). No reply so I tell myself 1 chance il give her. I txt her "U got 1 chance when i call you tomorow". no reply to txt at night. Next day I call to invite her to some offroad thing n pickup or call back. I got flaked on boys. This girl really wanted me you know the feeling.

-I think one of her friends may have affected her thinking-Those two dated popular football players I didnt try to b popular in HS. I just attracted the shit outta my HB 9. Also she might thought i just wanted sex hehe
ANY IDEAS

I dunno, the main thing that stuck out for me was when you said you grabbed her arse.
Not cool in my books, girls basically think instant sleaze if you go for the sexy bits.

Just my opinion, i think that's where you went wrong.

ya i agree, the grab was not a good idea. and my general rule is if you text once and dont get a reply, never text them again. that just made you look more and more desperate. remember you are the reward. she wants you, you should have left the set when it started going bad.

send her a txt & tell her she needs to workout a little more coz when you grabbed her ass it felt spongy or saggy or something lol

why do you say it shoulda been a lay? sometimes when you are LJBF girls will keep it flirty to keep you interested in being their friend. i didn't see many IOI's mixed in there at all.

Ain't tryna discourage you bro, but I think you mighta been gettin ahead of yourself there. I highly doubt that was anywhere NEAR a lay, assuming she digs you, it takes some serious gaming to up the ante to f-close.

On the contrary w/ the boys above, I don't have too much a prob w/ the butt kino as long as you covered your ground w/ quality C&F, maybe something like:

"ouch, can you please tell your butt to stop molesting my hand?!"

The main prob I have w/ your story is the 2nd txt. By emphasizing the fact that she only has ONE CHANCE left, you already admitted to the fact that she already did something to upset/dissatisfy you and now you're being forced to give her a second chance. Weak. I reckon it'da been better if you dropped the 2nd text & just call her the next day and if she flakes then just take a few steps back & hibernate wait for the slut to get in touch w/ you.