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thats what makes one itis so shitty, i can barely run game, i'm afraid a neg will go too far or something like that. its easy in the field because the outcome is experience either way but when you really want the girl its a different story.
No, you can not think that way. If you are in the mindset that you are afraid to lose someone, the chances that you will are much higher. You two are in the rapport building zone, so it is OK to start complementing her and telling her what qualities you like about her. At this stage you have to stop worrying about what to say, and just try to enjoy the company.