heres the situation

ive been serious with this girl for a while now at least 6 weeks but we're not in a relationship because shes been hurt in the past and wants time so im giving her space and time, and sat night we went out and she tried to stop herself making out with me to prove she was in control so I took some girl back to mine and well... made out with her on my bed lol, any way apparently she got really jeleous and text me twice etc etc so yeah i pissed her off bad

spoke to her recently and sorted it out although she was really upset and reckons her feelings have changed now ( clearly they havent shes jus saying it) but i said i would take her out to make it up to her, so we went out last night with another couple, she wanted me to pay, but i didnt because frame control and all that.

but one thing is though she wouldnt kiss me at the end of the night, then she text me later sayin " its not that i dont want to but you ent getting away with things that easily im sorry babe dont be in a mood" (she was refering to what happened at the weekend) she got really really jelous about what happened at the weekend and keeps asking me about how i feel about this girl and whats going on and making constant references to this girl. Im going to this party tomorrow night and both are going to be there. She said on msn last night that she doesnt know how she feels anymore, i think shes bluffing personally because i got a lot of ioi's last night (playing with the necklace, looking into my eyes, laughing at my jokes etc etc)

I was in the alpha role last night I took control, the only thing I didnt have control over was what film we went to see.

no we havent had sex yet.

but shes coming over on saturday night, i said we'd cook dinner together and she could wash up (alpha role again)

how would you progress to sex from there? and also once your making out, what step do you do next? and so on?

few things i'd really like to know

your opinion on

-does she like me and is she bluffing?

- she got really jeleous should i play on that?

- what else do you suggest?

- how should i act with her?

- and your general opinion about everything ive just said

- is the dinner thing a good idea and if not what would you suggest?

I want to be in a relationship with this girl.

I know how i want to play this but i really do want a third opinion on this