First of all my initial thought is i am in the friend zone because i am that typical "nice guy" but i have been slowly learning this stuff and using it on her.. like negging her etc


I met this girl last year, she was in one of my classes. we never really hung out, i would see her at the club from time to time. Mostly we would just text each other every now and then. Time passed an we never really talked.. went the whole summer without talking to her. Returned to school and starting using some pua techniques. We talk a lot but never hang out. its never talking like "how was your day" its mostly just fun conversations.

anyway a couple months pass and we were talking and she told me that she and this guy she was dating are done talking. shes been asking me to hang out for quite a while but its never really worked out. Finally i agree to hang out and go to this club this upcoming week, and everytime i see her she reminds me of how fun it will be and that i better come.

I am in to this girl and im not sure if she is in to me the way i want her to be in to me. she flirts with me a lot and everything. we have class together this semester

So... how can i test to see if im in the friends zone when we go to the club? How should i act at the club? (obviously not hang around her like a magnet but should i try opening other girls as well to possibly make her jelous?)

Whats a good response if she says were just friends?


any help would be appreciated

personally i would disqualify myself or her like almost off the bat maybe even then a neg.......... disqualification must be like a house of cards the excuse is weak and able to be toppled like:
you are just a riot, thats why me and you would never work out, i would never get anything done we just laugh all day......something like be creative funny and easily toppled you dont want to give her a legitimate excuse as to why you 2 cant get together

be fun be interesting and since you are going to a club talk to people here and there socially proof yourself make sure you are not a magnet but she is if she is dancing with a guy your outside smoking a cig talking to a few HBs even if it is out of the norm for you do it, shoot i would even go as far as trying to get other numbers.

then get a dance on with her she will have likely observed your behavior and make a comment about it, at this point you can be considered a candidate. the rest is on you


Also tonight is also a test in her mind she hasnt seen you in a while so this is somewhat of a chance to make a second first impression to a degree because the last time she saw you she had a set image in her mind, now its been a year she has that image but its not the same be different show that after a year you have changed into a more interesting person (not saying you werent but even more so) and remember be comfortable, SHIT she is the one trying to get you to come out and play not the other way around.

oh and i dont really think she LJBF'ed you yet so....... good to go
and if she does say you are just friends at the end of the night, tell her its better that way, that way you can get shit done (going back to disqualifier)

JUST REMEMBER WHEN YOU GO OUT YOU ARE FUCKING MONEY.....
GOLD FUCKING BULLION ............. FEEL LIKE A MILLION BUCKS AND YOU SHALL BECOME

thanks a lot.. i would like to add that we have seen each other this past year... we have a class together this semester and stop and talk between classes etc

even if that is the case ........... show her that there is an educational side and a personal side show her you have multiple worlds and are able to balance them, make her want to be a part of your other worlds (life outside of school) if you show there is a little more to you she'll wonder how much more is there................

anyone else im looking for all the help i can get?