Hello guys,
my my college is a weird place..but somehow it seems like worthless.
i tried social circle games and everything but i cant get results.People
dont have common things here-i cant connect girls at uni.

other than that everything looks harder.Boys arent allowed to clubs in my country so i cant go out with my wing.(you need to have a girl with you in order to get in)

and i am losing my motivation...online dating comes out as an escape for me.i am getting down guys.
i dont have money for peacocking,clubs,malls either.i need relaxation!!

well to make you feel any better im so new to the game i really dont have a clue whats going on. if i were you i would make the most of it and just meet girls on the street or in some form of a coffee shop or internet cafe

but thats just me. i hope it picks up for ya man

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Since this is the case, is it reasonable to assume there are unattached women near these clubs? If this is true, what's preventing you from using them to get you into the clubs?

well, it could be difficult to do this, especially if they find out that you cant get in because thats an extreme DLV. if you have good game and a strong frame, go for it. fuck it, go for it anyway. practice makes perfect.

girls are human
men are human
therefore all people are similar and always have commonalities with one another finding these commonalities is the key to relating to anyone

anything common to humans in general will be in common
-emotions what makes you feel happy, sad, funny, loved, hated, admired, respected, pain, pleasure (there are billions more possibilities)

-logic doesn't form as deep of a connection with a girl, but can still be used hopefully to segway into a more meaningful conversation about you and her
things that are logical commonalities could be what your campus is like, who her teachers are. Where you work, what you like doing.

I prefer to connect on emotions as I feel they have a much deeper personal meaning than logic does. If I do use logic I use it in order to get to some sort of deeper emotional conversation about me and her. Also its great to start out logical and progress into emotional. The question what do you like doing, can progress into why do you like doing that. She will say the feeling that it gives her and bam if you've ever felt the same way before you have a commonality.

Example:

Me: what do you like doing?
Her: I like to swim I guess.
Me: what is it that you like about swimming?
Her: hm I guess its that it makes me feel good to exercise like that and make sure my body is healthy
You: heh I agree, but I suck at swimming actually I almost have to get those little floaties for kids in the adult sizes lol, but I really love going to the gym and working out. It gives me this great feeling of release every time I push the weights up and I end up feeling much more healthy because of it.
(the commonality of health is established)

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